'Good' dream about two ex's

[Britt88]

Details: I've been going through a lot lately. Firstly I was kicked out of my apartment by a jealous roommate, am dating someone but not sure of where it will lead me. Now getting ready to get into college and making strides to improve my life; as well as finding a new place with a friend (That I like, and mutually likes me in return). So lots of upheaval. The dream: Starts with me studying at the public library I typically hang out at after class. Then an ex lover walks in I had not seen him for years. At first he does not recognise me. I notice him but stay silent and focused on my work, though I do not hide my presence. However he double takes me and walks up to my table. He kisses me on the forehead, remarking that I have changed so much since the last time he had seen me. We talk, he mentions that he is married and with kids ( I knew this in my waking life). Then tells me how happy it has made him,despite hating his wife. He then asks me if I had children yet. I tell him that I never want them (truth in life). He seems soloem telling me that he always wanted a kid with me, but things between he and I were too messed up; then it was a shame, since he thought that finally I was good enough for him. The dream shifted to me hiking, I had a hard time getting up a steep hill and asked a friend for a hand up. He refused. And my ex rode past me on his bike. I got angry, and grew wings and just flew up the hill instead. After I bought a ton of Sailor Moon toys for myself at a store and skipped away to my home.

[JoannaB]

I think both dreams or both parts of your dream mostly relate to your "making strides to improve your life". In the first dream an ex remarks that now you were good enough for him, but I think this is a reflection of your seeing yourself as good enough / better, due to the self improvements. Your ex dream character may just be there kind of as a mental mirror to show yourself your perception of yourself. Then in the second part you ask other for help, but then realize that you do not need their help, that you can fly, you are empowered. You are good enough, and you can do it.