Wedding Day??

[I Dream]

I dreamed I was getting ready for my wedding. I had everything laid out on the bed and put on the wedding dress, gloves, shoes and then I was frantically trying to call my boyfried so he would remember it was our wedding day but I could not get through to him..I then woke up. What do you think this means. I am not married and I am dating a guy I have known for about a year but we have not been dating that long..its been off and on. I also remember that I was running through a store and a parking lot holding my dress up so it wouldn't get dirty and yes I was wearing my wedding dress in the store and parking lot.

[I Dream]

Can anyone help me with this???

[Leo Volont]

Originally posted by I Dream I dreamed I was getting ready for my wedding. I had everything laid out on the bed and put on the wedding dress, gloves, shoes and then I was frantically trying to call my boyfried so he would remember it was our wedding day but I could not get through to him..I then woke up. What do you think this means. I am not married and I am dating a guy I have known for about a year but we have not been dating that long..its been off and on. I also remember that I was running through a store and a parking lot holding my dress up so it wouldn't get dirty and yes I was wearing my wedding dress in the store and parking lot. This Dream indicates that you have an anxiety that marriage means a great deal more to you than for your boyfriend. Perhaps it has something to do with a schedule you had set up. Perhaps you had the idea that you would date for a year and then get married. Well, its been a year, and so your dream is reminding you that you should be married by now. I once had a girlfriend that was a bit frustrated that we had not 'set a date'. I frankly told her that we had been fighting too much, and that I would not propose marriage unless we could go 6 months without a fight. I simply would not go into a marriage from a state of dating that seemed to be a constant state of Battle. that would be crazy. Marriage is supposed to be better then that. Well, then she suddenly became allergic to cats and wanted me to get rid of my Cat. It made me think. My relationship with my Cat was good enough. Me and the Cat never fought. So I decided that if one of them was to go, it should be the girlfriend. Afterall, it was her with the problem, wasn't it? Anyway, you need to examine your relationship and decide whether you have not put as much time into it as a Trial as you should. Why do we date? We date in order to determine suitability for marriage, do we not? Well, you have found that you and your boyfriend are too off and on, now haven't you? So what on earth are you still wasting your precious biological time with him for? You want a Good Husband and it isn't him! Time is a wasting, girlfriend! Cut that fish loose and hook yourself another. You obviously want to get married. So your first priority should be to find yourself a suitable husband. And it will all happen alot faster if you go into it with a decided intention and good goal-oriented behavior. Remember to be ruthless. Don't waste time on bad candidates. Anytime you meet with questionable behavior, determine immediately whether it is a marital disqualification. Don't make the same mistake of wasting another entire year with a losing proposition. And don't EVER suppose you can change bad behavior. A man who is dating is already putting forward the best of his behavior. It only gets worse from there. Any change a man does for a woman amounts to demasculinization and you will not find that attractive. Women come to resent compromise behavior in men. Women much prefer men that come as they want them, so take what you find, or don't take it at all. Good luck, young lady.

[eXistenZ]

Originally posted by I Dream I also remember that I was running through a store and a parking lot holding my dress up so it wouldn't get dirty and yes I was wearing my wedding dress in the store and parking lot. In the second part of your dream (quoted above) you mesh together sacred and profane: the sacred ceremony of wedding and the daily life of stores and parking lots. It seems to me that you wish to get married, but at the same time you fear that marriage would lead you towards a common and possibily boring life, made of shopping and commitments. You fear that the enthusiasm of the wedding day would be illusory, stained by the post-marriage life: that's why you hold up your wedding dress. Just sensations reading your dream report. Bye eXistenZ