The meaning of it all

[Matthewlovesammy]

well there's a girl I know called fiona. I was at blackpool with my parents and sister and I suddenly realised that the girl I knew (fiona) was there just a few seats away. So I looked at her for a while before introducting fiona to my parents. I then shook hands with her. I remember after the show, I joined fiona in a theme park, blackpool I believe it was. I joined her on a few rides, and got a picture or two with her, then without intending to, I lost fiona and I couldn't find her again. The next scene I recall, I remember being with my dad in bradford cinema, he told me it was just a bad nightmare and not to worry about how I lost her. Ironically, I woke up not long after I had been told it was a nightmare. What does all this mean?

[Matthewlovesammy]

Can someone get to this soon please? It means a lot to me and I really need some ideas to make sense out of this.

[tkia]

Matthew - You have to express your feelings about the dream for a good interpretation. How do you feel about this girl Fiona. How did you feel about seeing her. Any feelings about the theme park? Were you upset most of the dream? Happy? Scared? Etc. Instead of just telling your dream, break up into parts and expain the feelings associated with it. It's impossible to interpret a dream with just a literal description.

[Ahhchuu]

if this is a girl your interested in and im guessing it is since you dreamed about her. anyway you prolly fear going too fast with this girl will make her disinterested in you. maybe you fear she does not want to be in a relationship that involves meeting the parents and being a good girlfriend. rate my interpretation because i just started doing this and i have no idea if they are helping or not. 1/10 scale

[Michael]

are you interested in her but dating a girl named ammy? this could explain a lot.

[Matthewlovesammy]

Well the theme park I think I was in is one of my favorite, a great place to hang with a girl I think. I also think it made me upset and worried when I found out that I lost her and couldn't find her again. This girl I know called fiona is in a relationship but a girl I like very much. I don't really like a girl called sammy as much as I used to, I did register in may so things have changed since then. She had been to my house once or twice but that won't happen again. I was happy when with fiona, probaly most when I got a photo or two with her.

[tkia]

Matthew - My best amateur guess. It seems you have good feelings surrounding the theme park. A theme park is a place to have fun and is associated with good feelings. They make you happy. Maybe this is the way you feel when you are around Fiona. The fact that you lost her in this theme park is simply that she is "unattainable" since she is going out with someone else. You want her, but can't have her. You were happy when taking a photo with her (everything in your dream is you), so maybe you feel she is very much like you - she compliments you very well, and that is why you like her. Maybe you're scared you will "lose" her and won't find someone else that compliments you so well. The nightmare part is yourself (maybe others close to you as well since it was your dad) telling you to just forget about her (since she is unattainable). I mean, what can you do? "It's a nightmare, don't worry about it." And to you, not having her is a nightmare. Once you realized it was a nightmare and there was nothing you could do, you woke up.

[Matthewlovesammy]

Yeah that seems to make a lot of sense to me.