A shared dream??

[MidoriAlichino]

Ok me and a friend had the same dream the other night.though in different perspectives.But they were very closely familiar. and it's been bugging me since i found out the meaning of it. Our dreams were similiar only in different one way. Just some info on us, Me and my friend are VERY close friends.We may be apart by different states but we are both very close, we are also stubborn and tend to find a way to make things work even if it takes forever.Not too logn ago me and him had a small fight.We repatched up and are freinds now.Not too long after this incident my bf (Now ex) started to get jealous i was talking to him and we ended our relationship.though im not too sure what that could possibly tie into this.But that's for just incase. Now onto the dream~ Me and my partner (i dont remember seeing a face just some lady in an emerald green heavy satin gown) were in the midevil times..and we were in like a war.As we went through countries we conquered many in our path.(im not sure if any of this has anything to do with it but it was in color.. i heard colored dreams have a certain significance?).After a while We were stopped by a man (and this is where the wierd part comes in.) I dont remember his face but it was a tall male knight in a black and white uniform With blood red pieces. (My friend dan told me this and it was the exact same in my dream).He said he saw a redhead (I have red hair).and in this dream he was shot and stabbed(by 2 different people).But i didnt do the shooting or stabbing.. (my ex possibly??).also someone shot my partner the lady in the emerald dress.She was shot with 3 arrows and they formed a triangle like on her.One on her left chest, one on her right and one in her stomach. (this part didnt happen in dans dream however.) When i got off my horse (it was black) i got down and cradled her in my arms .. (IDK who this person could signify but i believe its someone very close to me to get that emotional over someone i couldnt make out.).( The dream ended there but the knight dan saw himself as was still standing there in my dream.He didnt fall or anything he just stood there. and then my mom woke me up so i didnt get to finish my dream ><) If anyone could possibly help us decipher some of this it would be great.But for some reason i feel it has something to do with my EX as well because he got so jealous over me talking to dan.So if anyone could help it'd be great! Thanks!

[Plato37]

Dear MidoriAlichino, I find your dream very interesting and full of symbolism. To go deeper you should tell me more about your relationship and the way you en your ex- broke up. But you can tell this only if you want. Otherwise, you are saying the dream was very vivid and in colours..it usuallly happens, when the unconsciousness tries to tell you something important.. The scene your dreams picked is quite archetypal, medivial times, you and your partner(probably aspect of your own personality) traveling and conquering countries...it gives me thefeeling, that you are a person, who likes discovering new things, is more liberal than conseravtive and don't accept too meny limitations(it goes together with the way you ended with your ex- it sounds pretty simple and with no big dramas). However, this kind of approach to life decisions has its advanteges and setbacks, but surely does give you a sense of freedom, because you probably don't like to become dependant on someone or something. But on this conquering voyage through the middle age you meet this character of a blac-white knight with red spots. Red is a colour of passion, fire, life...white and black are the opposites which compensate each other and are often compared to other opposites: day and night, male and female principle, good and bad, etc. This knight tells you that he saw a redhead(you) and then got stapped. Is it possible, that it is your ex- which is trying to tell you, that he has gotten stabbed, when he met you. You didn't stab him and he stays on his feet, the one who falls is your partner. I would ask myself a question: have I gotten over the ex- relationship or am I trying to surpress some unwanted feeling of saddnes and being hurt because the relationship hasn't worked out? Do I blame myself for this, do I blame myself to hurt someone. Not very easy questions but I guess itz is better to confront yourself with them than to surpress them. Ok, then we have this triangle here, made out of arrows. What does a triangle reminds you of...is it possible, that you are in a kind of a triangle at the moment? Be it this way or another, it is good to think about a dream for a whil and answers usually come on their own like some kind of "aha" moment.... It seems that dreams are telling you three things especially: first, your concept of your "perfect man" is quite romantic(knight) but has tensions inside itself(black-white+red). Secondly, there is a kind of traingle in your life at the moment(it is importatant, what kind of triangels you have had before in your life-parents, friends, other boyfriends). End third: you should treat yourself with patience and kind of care now, allow yourself attention and soft feelings, not trying to cut out feelings of sorrow and softness. Good luck and sweet dreams, Plato

[MidoriAlichino]

me and my ex were off and on for 2 yrears.Thsi time we broke up because he got jealous of me talking to dan.Like i wasnt allowed to have any guy friends beside him.He alos chewed dip (huge turnoff ) and i told him it was me or the tobacco.And naturally he chose the tobacco.I havent spoken to him since i threw his class ring at his head >.>; As for the triangle.I have 2 guys i really like. i think it may be that or, possibly my ex still likes me (i swear im over him) Does that help your interpretation abit?

[Plato37]

Yes, it does...at the end, you are allways the one, who's intuition understands the dream better than anyone alse, the interprter works more like a mirror and can help by clearing some aspects of the dream...some aspects usually stay enigmatic and it is good, if you keep tracking your dreams, it is much easier to work on a series of drems, when things, atmosphere and symols repeat until the issue is "dreamed over". As for this dream of yours: I thing the triangle is close to what we said. I read your dream once again and there is another interesting symbol, which is powerfull: the black horse you are riding. Do you have the feeling, that you are trying to show your strong nature to the people, being a bit wild and not like to bo controled(what does black horse mean to you-generally it is a symbol of libido and life energy, strong but doesn't like to compromise) Yoo are riding that horse and go off him when your partner is wounded in order to be close to her and nurter her(she probably is an aspect of your gentler intimate personality which compensates for the strong black horse, an energy which are you riding through different landscapes of your life). I think there is a tension between these two characters(black horse and wounded partner), which is natural, we all have our strong and our weaker parts of our personality.