death of children that i know

[Suze]

so the night before last i dreamed that my youngest cousin unexpectedly died (shes 10) of some kind of illness. no one in my family was expecting her to die... i mean her mother was taking her temperature and then she just died. her parents and brother (hes 12) were devastated but it seemed difficult for him to understand that she wouldn't be coming back. then last night... i dreamed that my family was with that aunt and uncle and cousin again. and me my aunt and my cousin (the brother of the one who died) were outside in a field and all of a sudden i see the little girl running towards me and i run to her and pick her up. shes talking to me... and then i see her mother looking at me. shes like no no this cant be happening whats goin on and she tries not to let her son come over to see his sister whos a breathing physically sound ghost. but he sees her and struggles and runs over and hugs her "claire! i knew you'd come back!" and then their mother comes over with tears running down her face "claire, baby!" and she looks at me and says how is this happening i dont understand, i dont understand whats going on." we cling to her, not wanting to let her go. but me and my aunt know that she must leave us again, because she's dead. the little girls like mommy! mommy! i wanted to come see you and josh and daddy again. i love you mommy. i love you josh. my aunt looks at the clock and then at me... she whispers to me its 4 minutes until the time she died yesterday. im like but shes here, shes healthy, how do we know that'll happen. we're like we have to take her temperature, see wheres shes at. claires brother is laughing and they're playing normally. but my aunt runs and grabs a thermometer and gives it to me. and im like claire come over here and i go to her and try to put the thermometer in her mouth and shes like no no i dont want that! and im like please claire please, to me and her mother this seems like the ultimate importance. but i try to put it in her mouth again and a mouth guard comes up telling me not to do so. then claires like mommy i have to go, and we look at the clock and its the time that she died. and shes like i love you all. and she hugs josh, i love you josh. and then she looks at me and says that she loves me. and she says tell daddy i love him so much. and her brothers like no claire no dont go please! and then shes like i have to, i love youu. and she fades out. i look at her mother and shes white as a ghost and shes like claire was here i dont understand she was here. that was her. and her sons like she wanted to come say bye mommy. and he seems content, but his mother has tears running down her face. then i realized that yesterday i also had a dream that my good friends son died. hes like 9 weeks old and my friend and his girlfriend had him unexpectedly and got married (IRL)... but in my dream everything in there lives seemed perfect and the baby was strong and healty despite being a preemie. but he got a little sick and my friend was in denial about taking him to the doctor because he was like hes so strong... its just a cold he'll be fine (which it was). and he was sick for like a day and then just died. my friend and his wife were devastated because it was so ultimately unexpected, he seemed fine. what do these dreams mean??