Baby driving Car

[garnet]

I dreamt I came from the previous home I lived in. On the road, I saw a small car with a 5 month old baby driving. The mother and another child were sitting in the back seat. The baby crawled out of the car onto the road and I saw a car coming along fast. I picked her up and held her close and the Mother followed me back to under the house. I saw my recently ex-boyfriend watching me and I did not care. He dispised me for wanting the child and told me to give back the child to the Mother. I held her and I crawled up a ladder. A tall, thin german male was laying on the ladder and I stopped my hips at his face. The dream felt sexual without being explicit. I felt my ex-boyfriend watching and knew he would return. In r/l I have been faithful to him. I separated because he was not being honest with me.

[Seanchaidh]

Hmm...interesting dream. Yes, I agree with you that the dream is very erotic. I have a feeling that your subconscious has been ignored about something as this dream you had - I don't know there seems to be some sort of alert feature here. Anyway. Are you an only child or do you perhaps have one sibling? If the answer to the above question is "yes", then read this spoiler: Spoiler for Answer 1: The child driving the car may represent you. That there was an element of your childhood that you resented. When you pick up the baby it could symbolise that you needed more protection or nurturing and as a result felt you were the only one who could provide this for yourself. This idea is enhanced by your encounter with the man by the ladder. As you didn't seem to resist him. If "no", then ignore the above spoiler. Did your boyfriend fear a lack of commitment? If "yes", click the spoiler below: Spoiler for Answer2: By holding the baby it symbolises you wanted to be a mother - not literally. Motherhood can be seen as a big commitent. However when your boyfriend looks coldly at you and tells you to give the baby back it could represent he doesn't want to be a dad - again not literally - and so isn't searching for commitment in your relationship. This make sense as he wasn't being honest with you. If "no", then ignore the above spoiler. Did you feel that you wanted more from your boyfirend but never got it? If "yes", then click the spoiler: Spoiler for Answer 3: By having a sexual encounter with the stranger it quite blatently says that you weren't feeling fullfilled in an aspect of you life. Quite possibly with your boyfriend - but this may not be the case. If "no", then ignore it. Here are other aspects: nostalgia and regret. Nostalgia: You flashed back to your old neighborhood and this could represent old memories/good times that you miss and want back again. Or it could symbolise your need to get back to your roots. Regret: Is it possible you regret splitting up with your boyfriend? By having that encounter with the man while you boyfriend wasn't that far away could show that you want your boyfriend back and that you yearn to have him kiss you etc. I don't know. This is a guess. I hope I helped in someway. The above are all theories. So please do not be offended by any of them.

[garnet]

Thank you very much. I am not offended, all the suggestions help open new trains of thought. That is why I posted here to see this dream differently. So again Thank you. I looked at all your suggestions. Some Answers: *I have sorted things with my boyfriend - yes you were right I did not wish to separate from him. The relationship is long-distance, so there is no sexuality - we have not kissed. We were known to each other through mutual friends. *The baby was a little girl. I have her show quite regularly in dreams even know her birthdate - 10th of February. *In r/l I have been standing up to a workplace culture of 3 people and nurturing myself when they attack me. *I liked the old house that use to live in - were I was underneath the house was cool in the Summer. It was a large house with privacy, space, trees, birds and possums and beautiful coloured glass windows. I moved because would take me 1 hour to 1 and half hours each weekend to mow and over an hour to clean. I now share house and my bedroom has the space but the rest of the house does not. *I have no desire to have any more children. I am 41 years old. I have one 20 year old daughter and one 12 year old son. *I have two brothers and two foster sisters.

[Seanchaidh]

Wow, what a life. I wish my life were as exciting as that. Anyway I'm glad I helped in way. Well, so long - great talking to you.

[garnet]

Your welcome - thank you too.