two dreams this weekend

[tkdyo]

So, most of you on this forum probably know me by now, especially about my long standing LDR relationship of over 4 years with my gf in Taiwan... I had a couple strange dreams involving my gf this weekend. Usually I dont dream of her, which seems odd, but I talk to her every day so I guess that is why, anyways here we go. First dream: this one starts off with me and my friend who lives at my house (he got kicked out in real life) chillin in bedroom I have never seen before. I remember the walls being a kind of dark beige and there was plenty of light in the room. My friend is sitting on a dresser top (hes small, lol) and I am laying on the bed. So suddenly , his gf is there, climbs on the dresser and starts making out with him..yeah...and then suddenly my gf appears, but when she starts to kiss me, my friend and her gf look at me kind of like Im intruding on them. suddenly I felt under intense pressure, but then I decided I didnt care and just wanted to enjoy being with my gf. so I ignore them, and turn to see my gf went to the bathroom, she comes back...but when she comes back she goes from being a medium sized asian to a skinny black woman...I have never seen a woman who looked like she did that I can remember and I wasnt suddenly more entranced or anything almost as if I didnt notice she changed, but then the making out proceeded as normal...I woke up shortly after. I suppose the only extra info I could give here is that my friend has his gf over at my house quite often, and they do lay on the couch and kiss and cuddle a lot. It makes me feel lonely sometimes...but they never talk bad about my relationship so I dont know why I would dream of them putting pressure on me. second dream the next night, much shorter: This dream is really odd. I am in my bed, my actual room this time. I am in bed typing to my gf on the laptop...but she is also actually in bed with me too...and she is trying to look at what Im typing, but for some reason I wont let her see, as if my gf in the computer is different from her, but it is not I remember that clearly. That is all that was to that dream. but my gf being in two places at once and trying to hide what Im typing to her are really really odd. anything else you feel is relevant please ask.

[oniman7]

Ok, well, I will give a separate interpretation for each of these dreams. I don't believe so much in dream interpretation, but I seem to have a natural affinity for it. As such, here is my interpretation: The first dream: Your friend and his girlfriend give you a desire to be with your girlfriend. You finally get to be with her, but then she changes to somebody else. At this point, there are two interpretations: 1) your desire to be with her leads you to be with somebody you don't know... or 2) she has changed to be unrecognizable. Second dream: The fact that she is in two places at once, and you are trying to hide the computer may show that you feel she is everywhere and that you need a little bit of privacy.

[djinternet]

but when she comes back she goes from being a medium sized asian to a skinny black woman...I have never seen a woman who looked like she did that I can remember You ran into a woman wearing "Glamour" a sort of "dream disguise" that lets your mind think a person is someone else - the "change in appearance" is due to (I Think) a loss of power. The funny thing about glamour is the person wearing it in the dream sequence - when the galmour "wears off" they still think the are the person they are imitating. Strange no? If you want to know who that black woman was, say the following phrase OUT LOUD to investigate the truth: "I WISH TO KNOW THE TRUTH: WHO WAS THAT OTHER LADY - NOT MY GIRLFRIEND?" Then go to sleep, your dream tonight will tell you The Truth.

[tkdyo]

mm, idk about that one...Im open minded and all, but I havnt remembered my dreams since then. the interpretation about me starting to look at other women could be true. I have noticed that lately I have been more inclined to flirt than I use to...mainly because Im feeling very under appreciated. However, Im still interested if there are more interpretations for the second one though, because I dont think she really smothers me and Im essentially trying to keep her from seeing the convo I am having with her on the computer, that is the part that is really odd.