Apparation from my childhood?...

[music_man]

When I was little, we lived in a house where a girl had killed herself. She was around 14 or 15 when she did it. I don't remember much, but I remember that she was a very freindly spirit. She wasn't always around but I could always tell when she was. I had only seen her a few short times, but I remember one distinctive time that I came in my room and she was sitting on my bed. It didn't last very long, but I remember she was just sitting there smiling at me. She had long, flowing black hair, and she was wearing a white dress. Then we moved and she doesn't come up in conversation very often. Just when we talk about how we lived in a house with a ghost in it. I didn't think much of it at the time because I was just so used to her being around. But the other night, I had a dream i was in my room lying on the floor. (my room in the old house. Not the one I live in now) I was just lying there. I didn't recognize where I was at first, but I sat up and knew where I was. It was nighttime, and the moonlight shined through the windows. I looked around and she was sitting on my old bed in the same place she was before. Only this time, she didn't look very happy, and she was wearing a black dress insead of white. After a while of silence, I noticed that she started to cry because her mascara was going down her cheeks. I'm not really that sure what it could mean..The only thing that i could think of is that maybe she misses me?...I'm not so sure...Help?

[Timothy Paradox]

This should probably be in beyond dreaming. Try talking to this ghost of yours? Or try to get in touch through dreams? Just brainstorming here.

[oniman7]

This should probably be in beyond dreaming. Try talking to this ghost of yours? Or try to get in touch through dreams? Just brainstorming here. As much as this would be cool, I imagine it would be hard to actually contact this ghost. I am not saying ghosts don't exist, nor am I saying they do. Even if they do, the possibility that it is an actual conversation and not one made up by your dream mind is very slim. Sorry, not much interpretation there.

[music_man]

As much as this would be cool, I imagine it would be hard to actually contact this ghost. I am not saying ghosts don't exist, nor am I saying they do. Even if they do, the possibility that it is an actual conversation and not one made up by your dream mind is very slim. Sorry, not much interpretation there. Yeah I agree. I mean one day I might go back to the house someday and see...I think it's abandoned now...But i doubt I could contact her in a dream...Thanks anyways though

[oniman7]

I wish something like that had happened to me. Coming from your point of view, you probably wish the opposite I know.

[music_man]

Yeah I get what your saying. Even though I don't know what it means yet it is interesting

[Psionics]

if it's an abandoned house, maybe it's scheduled for demolition. Just spit-balling here though.

[garnet]

The spirit had a connection with you in your childhood, you both shared the same space in parallel universes. You are all grown now and like then you were accepting of her in your life, so this dream is coming through to you like a childhood friend contacting you. When did the girl die? Are you older than her now? What does the colour black mean to you? Black could be reality biting you. Or she is ready to tell you wearing her funeral attire, or thinks you would understand her now, or are old enough to be told. This dream may also be a warning too, or maybe she is trying to tell you she is mourning for part of your life. You were laying on the floor, this is not a position of comfort. When you dreamt of her prior did you dream whilst you were laying in the dream in your bed? You stated this was a nightmare - why is it different from the other encounters you have had with this spirit? Sometimes spirits can be like the crow - messengers between both worlds. She will probably connect again to tell you. Sometimes spirits also tell of a loved one ready to pass into the next world.

[Corpse]

Hmmm, I'm pretty sure this girl needs your help if this truly is a metaphor and not just simply "a dream". I would say give it a shot contacting her via dreams, I mean if she appeared there once it's worth a try isn't it? I would also say it's worth a try going to the actual house and just simply speaking to her. I find it a little odd how she normally wears a black dress when she's "happy" and yet when she wears the white dress she cry's. It should be the other way around in my opinion. Do you remember anything specific about the dresses? Like perhaps the white dress could have looked like a wedding dress, and maybe she was sad because she's still waiting for her lover to cross over? Even though she only died when she was 15 she could have still been in love with someone, but it's unlikely for someone that age.

[Timothy Paradox]

I say it's a trick of the subconcious again. It's the simplest explanation.

[oniman7]

Hmmm, I'm pretty sure this girl needs your help if this truly is a metaphor and not just simply "a dream". I would say give it a shot contacting her via dreams, I mean if she appeared there once it's worth a try isn't it? I would also say it's worth a try going to the actual house and just simply speaking to her. I find it a little odd how she normally wears a black dress when she's "happy" and yet when she wears the white dress she cry's. It should be the other way around in my opinion. Do you remember anything specific about the dresses? Like perhaps the white dress could have looked like a wedding dress, and maybe she was sad because she's still waiting for her lover to cross over? Even though she only died when she was 15 she could have still been in love with someone, but it's unlikely for someone that age. Let's say, for argument's sake, that it is just a figment of imagination. The fact that she is upset when she wears a white dress and vice-versa tells me a little bit more. It could be a confliction of the anima and animus ( the masculine and feminine part of your subconscious ). It could also be a representation of something. Confusing emotions? Maybe you are starting to question the black-and-whiteness of everything ( and I don't just say that because of the color of the dresses ). Either way, dream interpretation is very vague and open-ended, and I don't believe much in it ( although I do enjoy interpreting ).

[music_man]

Let's say, for argument's sake, that it is just a figment of imagination. The fact that she is upset when she wears a white dress and vice-versa tells me a little bit more. It could be a confliction of the anima and animus ( the masculine and feminine part of your subconscious ). It could also be a representation of something. Confusing emotions? Maybe you are starting to question the black-and-whiteness of everything ( and I don't just say that because of the color of the dresses ). Either way, dream interpretation is very vague and open-ended, and I don't believe much in it ( although I do enjoy interpreting ). I think your all confused...she was sad in the black dress. And happy in the white. If I said it wrong my accident...but she was crying in the black dress. But yeah i'm not very sure...ive tried some to contact her but i haven't been very successful =/

[garnet]

Today is the dark moon, light a candle for the dead to find their way home.

[Timothy Paradox]

Can't ghosts see in the dark or something?

[garnet]

No, the fire is an energy to enhance spirit contact Timothy Paradox. This dream can be an expression of the unconscious, as well as the energy that connects this dreaming soul to past impressions, or lost spirit, or a twin soul experience. I noticed you said the girl wore mascara - so she liked make-up? I think if I were this dream character, I would be calling you back because I felt unhappy and wanted company again. I may have felt you were outgrowing me and I did not want to loose you. You had spent so much time away from the room that I had become accustom to your absence. But this particular night when the moon was full, I missed you and called you back. I was upset and crying because you are old enough now to hear my full story. I would say that you have an artistic and musical side and the darkness that I experienced is why I wear a black dress. I also black dresses to funerals and maybe I was going to attend my own funeral and move on from this house. I would probably want to tell you why the room had a funny feeling. Perhaps my friends and I played with oujji boards and magic there and some doors opened, ones you were not scared of? But now time is your making not mine. I am part of you as much as you are part of me and this is the cross-over of two worlds.

[music_man]

No, the fire is an energy to enhance spirit contact Timothy Paradox. This dream can be an expression of the unconscious, as well as the energy that connects this dreaming soul to past impressions, or lost spirit, or a twin soul experience. I noticed you said the girl wore mascara - so she liked make-up? I think if I were this dream character, I would be calling you back because I felt unhappy and wanted company again. I may have felt you were outgrowing me and I did not want to loose you. You had spent so much time away from the room that I had become accustom to your absence. But this particular night when the moon was full, I missed you and called you back. I was upset and crying because you are old enough now to hear my full story. I would say that you have an artistic and musical side and the darkness that I experienced is why I wear a black dress. I also black dresses to funerals and maybe I was going to attend my own funeral and move on from this house. I would probably want to tell you why the room had a funny feeling. Perhaps my friends and I played with oujji boards and magic there and some doors opened, ones you were not scared of? But now time is your making not mine. I am part of you as much as you are part of me and this is the cross-over of two worlds. Wow...That actually makes sense... I definately should go back to the house whenever i can

[garnet]

If you could access the house, or are able to have a look inside then by all means do it. Why don't you try GoogleEarth search and plug in the address? If you find a pic could you post it to me privately - thank you.

[oniman7]

Today is the dark moon, light a candle for the dead to find their way home. What religion/nationality/superstition do you follow that would influence this? just out of curiosity.