I have been thinking... Since my journey has started to lucidity, i have been having alot of problems with tutorials and such. They talk about checking your reality in a dream, although i know the dream incubation method - the only thing that does is changes what happens in my dreams... now to get down to whats on topic :
I am not talking about lucidity, but it seems from what i read that before people become lucid, they seem to be watching their dreams much like someone would a tv. I only remember my dreams, i do not get that thought of seeing it as something that is happening that i can watch when i dream. Is this a problem or is this normal?

if you do not understand, please tell me so, its late, im tired... and i cannot think straight