love, what does it mean!?

[stnicka]

i had a dream where i was in a wheelchair and rolling around on these beautiful green hills folowing my friend who is also in a wheelchair, i see the building we are going to and fall i get up and wheel up to it, 2 girls that i know walk up one leaves with my friend and the other sits on my lap and says shoulda done this al long time ago and kisses me, we break off and its like in the movies where there is a realization point of love, we go in and i feel like im in love for the rest of the dream. when i wake up im really depressed that the dream is over because that was a great feeling. its weird because i dont believe in true love or any of that, but its bad to because this dream happened a couple days ago yet it still depresses me. and i know it will even more if i see this girl at school because i know that wasn't real. would someone like to shed some light on this

[Xetrov]

Happened to me too, had some interesting love experiences in my dreams. Nothing weird or so, I think. Just that I do believe in true love, and married to her ...

[stnicka]

thats the thing is i dont believe in that stuff so this dream hurt today was the first day of school to and i was talking to her and it felt wierd like i couldnt talk to her anymore, and i dont want to really go out with anyone right now cause of football n shit so i dont have time

[stnicka]

i had another dream where she was in it, and i was really high and she said something and i said she was beautiful and then she was like well are you gonna ask me out or what and thats all i remember, it was wierd cause i felt like being really high was pushing me forward to really go after her, then it stopped me so i was thinking should i get really high and talk to her, and that wont take much cause i have'nt smoked weed in 4 months. i feel like these dreams gotta mean something

[JamesLD]

well lets dig deeper. why dont you believe in true love?

[stnicka]

well lets dig deeper. why dont you believe in true love? cause it sounds like bullshit

[Daen]

Ah yes, these ones can hurt indeed. I've had about four proper love experiences in my life and I remember them very clearly, especially the feeling of depression upon waking. You may want to read some Carl Jung on the subject of the Anima and Animus in one's dreams. Incase you don't, I'll summarise. The 'significant female' in a male's dream is reffered to as his 'Aenima' and the 'significant male' in a woman's dream is her 'Animus'. More often than not, these figures represent the feminine aspect of ourselves (for guys). Many men (in this mind-oriented, patriachal society) find ugly, old, frightened/frightening, fat, mean women in their dreams due to their neglecting of their feminine aspect in waking life. These 'guidances' far transcend faerie-tale notions of 'true love' between individuals, and rather point to the Whole Love you Are beyond the ego-devices that seek to hide your own Divinity from your Awareness through seperation of 'self'. Here on Earth we have opposites like pleasure/pain, hot/cold, etc. for our experiences and contrasts and YOUR opposite (in dualistic reality) is a woman... you can not come to God unwhole, so your dreams are but one way that the neglected feminine can make itself known and begin to heal (to make One) with(in) 'you'. Because your Aenima is based on a 'real' person, it calls to you and speaks of the opportunity to look deeply into that person to see possible connections toward you healing or integration. It's very exciting and intensely powerful 'work' to get into. If you can become Lucid you can offer Her (yourself) your Love or ask Her questions about Your nature and what part "She" plays. Hopefully that helped. "True Love" as defined by 'history' IS crap. The idea that one person exists for and only for the other; rediculous. True Love does exist though. Absolutely. You, at your essence, are True Love, Perfect and Eternal. Knowing this it becomes clear what the 'little you (individual, seperate from God)' believes and would have you believe in order to maintain its illusiory existence. From here (percetion) it is only a short gap to Knowing. Peace bro! Daen.

[stnicka]

Ah yes, these ones can hurt indeed. I've had about four proper love experiences in my life and I remember them very clearly, especially the feeling of depression upon waking. You may want to read some Carl Jung on the subject of the Anima and Animus in one's dreams. Incase you don't, I'll summarise. The 'significant female' in a male's dream is reffered to as his 'Aenima' and the 'significant male' in a woman's dream is her 'Animus'. More often than not, these figures represent the feminine aspect of ourselves (for guys). Many men (in this mind-oriented, patriachal society) find ugly, old, frightened/frightening, fat, mean women in their dreams due to their neglecting of their feminine aspect in waking life. These 'guidances' far transcend faerie-tale notions of 'true love' between individuals, and rather point to the Whole Love you Are beyond the ego-devices that seek to hide your own Divinity from your Awareness through seperation of 'self'. Here on Earth we have opposites like pleasure/pain, hot/cold, etc. for our experiences and contrasts and YOUR opposite (in dualistic reality) is a woman... you can not come to God unwhole, so your dreams are but one way that the neglected feminine can make itself known and begin to heal (to make One) with(in) 'you'. Because your Aenima is based on a 'real' person, it calls to you and speaks of the opportunity to look deeply into that person to see possible connections toward you healing or integration. It's very exciting and intensely powerful 'work' to get into. If you can become Lucid you can offer Her (yourself) your Love or ask Her questions about Your nature and what part "She" plays. Hopefully that helped. "True Love" as defined by 'history' IS crap. The idea that one person exists for and only for the other; rediculous. True Love does exist though. Absolutely. You, at your essence, are True Love, Perfect and Eternal. Knowing this it becomes clear what the 'little you (individual, seperate from God)' believes and would have you believe in order to maintain its illusiory existence. From here (percetion) it is only a short gap to Knowing. Peace bro! Daen. k does this apeal to me cause i dont believe in god, i couldnt really concentrate on it

[Daen]

Hmmmm. How lazy. Why bother posting on a site like this if you're not going to devote one minute to reading comprehension? It has nothing to do with your 'disblief' in God but rather the atrophy of your ill-used mind. Harsh, I know.... You might just prefer to play more football. Peace... if you want it!

[stnicka]

Hmmmm. How lazy. Why bother posting on a site like this if you're not going to devote one minute to reading comprehension? It has nothing to do with your 'disblief' in God but rather the atrophy of your ill-used mind. Harsh, I know.... You might just prefer to play more football. Peace... if you want it! na i was doing something else at the same time, and my mom was talking to me, i meant to go back and read and now that i have, its really smart. and my mind isnt atropheing its overly occupied.

[Daen]

Sweet as. My reaction was funny anyway. I actually surprised myself with my pettiness. Sorry dude, I guess my mind is over-occupied as well.

[stnicka]

Sweet as. My reaction was funny anyway. I actually surprised myself with my pettiness. Sorry dude, I guess my mind is over-occupied as well. haha thats the world for ya, al ADDed up

[Daen]

haha thats the world for ya, al ADDed up Heh heh... ADDed up. Melikes. Talked to that chickadee yet?

[stnicka]

Heh heh... ADDed up. Melikes. Talked to that chickadee yet? since the dream ya, she's in my first period class, havent really talked to her in like 2 days tho cause i've been asleep but before that i was talking to her and shit was goin smooth and i havent really talked to her since. i dont really care anymore tho i dont have enough time, im doin football, then wrestling, then track so my whole year is taken by sports.

[Ethereal]

You're going to let a bit of football get in front of a girl? Sounds like an excuse, and I would know about those. Very well.

[stnicka]

You're going to let a bit of football get in front of a girl? Sounds like an excuse, and I would know about those. Very well. do you play football, do you know the time and energy it takes up plus once again this was a dream that made me think for a bit about her but didnt mean anything, plus this chick is mormon, ya know what i mean

[Ethereal]

You're not the only one who plays sports. Anyway, I'd thought that you were interested in this girl. If she really is a moron, then don't think twice about it. All that your dream did was invent your 'dreamgirl' (for lack of a better word) and put a random person's face on it.

[stnicka]

You're not the only one who plays sports. Anyway, I'd thought that you were interested in this girl. If she really is a moron, then don't think twice about it. All that your dream did was invent your 'dreamgirl' (for lack of a better word) and put a random person's face on it. idk the dream kinda developed the interest, but dat shit kinda wore off, so unless i hear some shit about her wanting me or something i dont really care

[sheogorath]

the same thing has happened to me before, but it was someone from school that i dont realy know, in the dream thouhg, being with her just seemed right, like "true love" i guess you could say. I am also with you in that i dont believe in true love, so it was very strange. and for any of you who want to know why, give me an example of TURE love in real life. People claim it all the time and get a devorce. I cant name a single family member that has not been devorced at least once, some even 2 or 3 times. IMO, love is LOVE, FOREVER, and maby a couple will claim it, but someone always has an ulterior motive. Normaly money.

[Ethereal]

My parents have been together for 25 years. I'd call that true love. Besides, true love is a stupid term. What does it even mean? Your wife is not some romantic lover in a satin gown, she's your best friend and your closest confidant. That's true love, knowing you can trust someone and continuing to cherish them even after fiery, early days of love are gone. Also, that's just cynicism, the claim about money. You've probably seen people have bad experiences with love, but don't presume to know all about love at the tender age of still-in-school. I'm still in school, but then I don't claim that every married couple (and unmarried couple) in the world are wrong and in it for an alterior motive.

[stnicka]

its funny cause i like hate this bitch now and yeah my parents have been together 25 yrs but i wouldnt call that true love, they might just figure they commit this much time theres no goin back

[CanceledCzech]

its funny cause i like hate this bitch now and yeah my parents have been together 25 yrs but i wouldnt call that true love, they might just figure they commit this much time theres no goin back Haha, you hate her now? What happened. Also, what makes you think that dreams don't mean anything? A rhetorical question: What is love? Nice avatar/sig, by the way.

[Kuhnada29]

Love, in a metaphysical sense AND a physical sense is simply connectivity. Oneness. I've never been in true love myself...and don't plan on experiencing it for maybe another year or two, I'm still pimpin for now hehe

[stnicka]

Haha, you hate her now? What happened. Also, what makes you think that dreams don't mean anything? A rhetorical question: What is love? Nice avatar/sig, by the way. idk i guess i dont hate her when i typed that she was acting like a stupid bitch hell ya Zissou

[sheogorath]

i had a "love" dream about a week ago. It was nice, but i dont know. it seemed so exaggerated. Like in my dream when i would hug the girl, it would just give me a warm and fuzzy feeling. However, in real life when a girl that i liked very much hugged me, i felt nothing. it was strange (or rather normal) because it just felt like a hug, you know like from family, all cold and plain.