Kissing and snakes....not kissing snakes

**davidlogan** · 09-13-2010 06:24 AM

Hey, brand new here...but I had this interesting dream and looking for help...anyone is welcome to post thoughts or suggestions.

When the dream began I was walking down the spacious hallway of some type of University where in the dream I was either employed or was a student. It was a bit unclear, but I lead toward employee. When I happened to pass this Caucasian blonde in the hallway I overheard her two African American friends say something about the next guy to pass her in the hallway she should just stop him and kiss him.
So I stopped and walked a few paces back to her and said I volunteer. If she needs to kiss someone, I'm willing to help out. At first her expression looked a little put out...but it quickly changed to one that said...sure why not. She gave a little shrug and she kissed me on the cheek. A long cheek kiss. And much longer and more passionate that I had expected. When she finished with a playful smacking sound we were both smiling and she turned her cheek to me as if I should reciprocate. So I leaned into kiss her cheek and she immediately turned her head and I was shocked to find my lips landed on hers.
I started to open mouth kiss her and as I did, we both heard someone approaching and she abruptly pulled away and try to play it off as though we were just casually talking. The one who approached was a young man with dark hair who introduced himself to me as Matt (I don't know this person in the waking world) and asked me what we had been doing.
I told him that I had just met her and then asked her for her name. She told me Leah. I told Matt I was just leaving because my class was going to help a group of needy children today.
Location change:
Suddenly I was on a small rural bridge on an asphalt road in a small town with a lot of other adults in white T-shirts, as if to suggest they were all part of the same community service group. Lining the railing of this bridge were toy ghosts from the Ghostbusters that I had owned as a child. Only these ghosts were larger (about a foot and a half each) and were living. All though they were unmoving and not threatening us in anyway. I immediately understood that we were helping needy children by getting rid of these ghosts. And the other adults had already started pushing the ghosts off the rails of the bridge into the water below.
Suddenly, I felt as if the other adults were judging me for not doing my part with the ghosts, do I quickly lifted one up. (it was a skeleton from my childhood) and I used it to smash it into two ghosts, one after another, effectively knocking them in the water. Then I through the skeleton off after them. Effective dispatching of three ghosts myself. I felt the group was pleased with my work.
Location change:
Suddenly I was in a parking lot running from a short plump man with unkempt white hair and I was Garfield the cat. My dog pal Odie quickly escape and was not seen again in the dream, but the man picked me up. And he told me he was going to kill me because he hated bags, cars and cats. Now suddenly I knew I have driven a car there (a 2000 Grand Marquee to be exact that I had tried without success to sell at a car lot I used to work at in the real world) and that car had my bag of clothes in it and I was in fact a cat. However, I simply said "me too" And the guy was suddenly one over with my friendship. So he set me down and told me I should come to live with him. I agreed and said first I had to get my clothes out of the bag.
Location change: He was driving home and I was following him in my car. We drove down a country interstate and he went down a road that was closed off. I followed. we drove down a fairly precarious hiking trail (in the grass but very narrow) until we came to his house which I could not clearly see, but I have an idea that it may have looked like an old horror movie house.
Inside I was myself again, but the car had broken around me and there wasn't much left of it. But the steering wheel and part of the engine had gotten tangled around me and I asked him for help getting it off. So he helped me pry loose the broken pieces of the car.
Just then I saw a large dark snake slithering toward me on the ground. The man told me that was his pet Boa constrictor snake and it would do me no harm. The thing made a wide circle around me and was started to left off the ground and close in for the kill. I told him the snake was trying to kill me and he should get rid of it. And he did. He grabbed it up even though it was easily 20 feet long and walked out of sight with it.
The house was a large square with no dividing walls inside other than the bathroom, which was long and took up almost one entire wall of the house. I went into the bathroom and I could see myself looking into the mirror, but I saw my own back and not my reflection. Also the bathroom turned me back into a man again and I forgot that I was ever a cat. Just then the man spoke to me from one of the many small windows which lined the bathroom wall where it connected to the ceiling. He told me he wanted to stay in the bathroom because two women had come over who did not know I was living there and this is not the way he wanted them to find out.
With that, the man was gone and I could see one of the women walk by the bathroom. There was no door on the doorway anymore so I could see her walk by, but she did not see me. Then instantly the man and the two women were seated at the table eating and talking and I could hear them, but do not remember anything that was said, if I could make it out.
Then I heard the man say that he had told them about me and it was okay to come out. I came out of the bathroom and sat down on the single sized bed with a ruffled unmade white sheet across it and both women came up to me and warned me about the man that he was gay and I should keep my eye on him. There was a blonde and brunette. Only the dark haired woman ever spoke. (which as I type this, bothers me a bit for some reason) She showed me a stray sex toy the man had laying on the ground. (in dream logic, this sex toy confirmed that the man was gay she seemed to think he had interest in me) I simply told the woman I was not gay and that seemed to remove all doubt on the matter.
The woman asked me how old I thought she was. And I asked if the two women wanted me to guess their ages. (at this time the blonde woman and the man were gone, never to be seen again) I asked the dark haired woman if she wanted me to take off a few years to be polite in the age guessing game, or just guess the age I thought she was. She told me to just guess accurately and not try to be polite about it. Until that moment she looked to be young, mid 20s to 30 at the most. But when I tried to make a guess I noticed she had elderly hands. I touched them and told her the truth was in her hands. I told her that her hands just looked just like my late grandmothers (and felt like them too) and that her hands gave away her true age.
Then I was in a diner with Leah the girl who I had kissed in the hallway. She was working the register there and I had come to say goodbye to her. I don't know for what reason. I wanted her phone number, but I felt like that would make her uncomfortable, so I offered to give her my facebook info instead. She agreed. I took a small scrap of paper and wrote down an email address that is not to my facebook. I knew this was a mistake so I tried to write it again, but this time it came out as nonsense. I couldn't write down the email address. She told me not to worry about it, just to give her my phone number. So I tried to write down my cell number, but it came out as my work number. I tried again and nonsense again. I could not write down the number either.
Finally, she offered me a calculator and suggested I type the phone number into that. I remember her holding it and helping me to type it in. I remember seeing numbers on the screen and I believe I successfully entered it, though the dream skips here so I can't be 100% sure.
We were back in the hallway again where everything had started. I was walking by the same spot only this time Leah was standing there with her jealous friend Matt. This time I was confident in Leah's feelings for me and not concerned with Matt standing there. So I walked right up to her and put my hands on her hips and kissed her. I felt that she really enjoyed the kiss, but when I pulled back to see her expression there was no emotion on her face.

**daeryk** · 09-23-2010 05:12 PM

I can't interpret the whole dream, but there are few parts I can interpret.

The bridge is a symbol for a transition, or change in your life. Going from one place to another mentally or emotionally. Or even a milestone in your life you're passing through. The people in white t-shirts symbolize aspects of your personality that are being purified, or balanced. The white is purity and balance and the shirts represent the personality or character.

The bathroom symbolizes purging negativity, and getting rid of negative thoughts, emotions, or life situations.

Snakes in dreams if they are poisonous represent negative thoughts that poison your mind. They are things you think that make it hard to stay positive when you have them.

Kissing in a dream represents becoming intimate with some other aspect of your personality. If you are not black and black guys told you to kiss someone it may be a message about desirous aspects of your personality. Sexual desirous fantasies, or thoughts you have about things you want but don't believe you can ever have. If you know these black guys this may not apply to them unless you have stereotypical views of them, or opinions of them that fall under the category of desire.

Blonde hair in a dream is a symbol for actualization of your thoughts. Yellow represents creation. So if you see blonde people you don't know, or people you do know with brown hair who have blonde hair in your dream it represents aspects of your personality that are creating your life experience, or actualization your thoughts into reality.

Anyone in a dream you don't recognize is a symbol for some aspect of your personality that you are unaware of.

The only advice I can give you is to monitor your thoughts. Then stand up to fear whenever you feel it, resist desire for attractive people and things you want, but don't believe you can ever have. And to respect and understand all people even if you don't like them. This includes forgiving anyone who ever did you wrong, and apologizing for everything wrong you ever did. All of this might been a but much for a dream like this, but generally this advice covers any possible problems that a dream is trying to tell you about.

The ghosts symbolize negativity from your past that haunts you, or causes you problems to this day. You are getting rid of the ghosts for the kids to symbolize dealing with negativity from your past to help new developments, or new ways of thinking to flourish in your life. A very good thing to see in a dream.