help with trying to lucid dream

[rodneywark]

hi i am a noobie at lucid dreaming looking to have my first one.,if talked to a buddy of mine who does it alot and knows alot because of this site so ive talked to him about how to do it. and i have the same dreams over n over alot maybe twice a month, even most of the dreams i know im dreaming but i can only lay there and watch is what it feels like. my friend says that i alwayd lucid dream then. but im curious how do i start to control it if i know im dreaming. respond quickly i would like to do lucid dreaming alot

[Seeker]

Hi rodneywark, I think you should try a smaller step next before learning control. Next time you realize it is a dream, do nothing other than walk around. Look at things, pick up things, feel how real they are. It sounds to me that the most important thing you need to work on is to fully engage with the dream.