Please Help!!

[samos71]

Hi, I am having a little trouble. I've just started and things are going well I am going with the dild technique. I am able to recall at least 1 dream every night in pretty good detail and am writing it down. I did notice my dream recall is way better than when I started. My problem is most of my dreams if not all don't really seem out of the ordinary. I don't really see any dream signs I can use. Here's a couple examples: Mais and I are sleeping in the basement of my house, except in this dream it is her house. Her mom wants to come downstairs, as she comes mais stops her at the top of the basement stairs. They talk to each other and her mom comes into the basement. I hide myself at the side of the bar and her mom is looking for something. Mais tries to keep her distracted, she opens the closet door. She looks toward me and we make eye contact but she doesn't say anything she acts like nothing happened. She goes upstairs and mais escorts her. When mais comes back down I tell her that her mom saw me and we made direct eye contact. We hear her mom upstairs yelling to Maia's sisters and father. They come downstairs and confront me. To my surprise they are not as mad as I thought they would be. Her sister Hera sits to talk to me first. Then her dad tells me to come sit beside him so I do. We start talking he's telling a long story. He pulls out a smoke and starts smoking which surprises me because I never knew he smoked. Mais gently kicks me and tells me to bring up golf because her dad lives golf so I say "I like golf". All of a sudden my dad Adel Khaled Saty my mom and sister are all upstairs. I can hear my dad yelling because he doesn't want me to suck up to them. Khaled comes downstairs to deliver the same message, I get soo pissed I yell at him tell him it's not of his business is araby and escort him upstairs. When I go up my mom is setting the table for breakfast and Adel and dad sit waiting to eat so we can go to work In a long thin narrow hall which curves, my brothers challenge me to a hockey game 2 on 1 it's not an ordinary hockey gamesm, it's played with just hands and a ball or chocolate crime egg. I win the first draw with trickey I power throw them both and score. I win the second draw again with trickey, there is a man who drops the egg from above that is the draw. I Jump high gaining leverage by using the hall which is sort if a construction cage. I score again making it 2-0 again the 3rd time I use trickery again to win the draw and go score. "I'm that good" I tell them feeling really happy inside. I plug the egg into a plug and they decide to rest in Denver if my choosing. I need my car, it's not starting. Eventually it starts Im driving down Ahmed najis ally my cars battery dies. I have lots if people around, my dad shows up to fix it he starts bitching and pulls our a camera to take a picture if embarrassment I am embarrassed and put my head down in shame. I start my car and speed off. At the Olive Garden I eat at the bar, Lamese shows up we talk for a bit her and os are coming to eat later. I finish my food and walk into the back, there are a lot of people I don't recognize but some I do. Nafeesa, Stephanie, Ashley are among them. Sireen is a server there too. Robin opens the door for me and everyone follows for a smoke break. I'm sitting with sireen. She's stating at Ashley knowing that she's dating Iss. They get into it as sireen hates her and starts giving her shit. Ashley starts crying claiming sireen or no one ever gave her a fair chance I have more but I know it's a lot to read. I need help to determine what some of my dream signs are as nothing really ever seems too weird in my dreams. I thank you in advance for taking the time. Please help!

[redarx]

Well not all Lucids are out of the ordinary, YOU can end up making them weird on purpose. Were you lucid in this dream? and once you attain lucidity you can practice changing things or using powers etc.. Dreams arent always weird but when we become lucid thats when we can take advantage of the opportunity. There may not always be dream signs either because i know i dont often have them. In order to become lucid i just practiced pushing my finger through my palm, in real life nothing would happen. But when im dreaming my finger goes through or starts to push through flesh causing a weird distorted feeling in my hand and thats my cue to do whatever the hell i want. Go fly etc..

[sunset77]

I had the same issues when I first started the practice. It honestly gets easier the more you work at it.

[samos71]

No these are just normal dreams not lucid ones. I am doing my reality checks often plus keeping a dream journal. I read that part of the reason you keep a dream journal is so you can, when you have enough dreams, look and read them and pick out dream signs so you know what to look for in your dream. If that's the case and the dreams are always normal I can't seem to find a dream sign.

[JoannaB]

Display of high emotions as dream sign? Your dad yells. You hang your head in shame. Ashley cries.