Dream Homosexuality....

alright i thought about making a fake account but it was too hard. well anyways ive had a wierd experience. alright, first off, i do like women. but in my dreams (lucid) when ever i get down and dirty it always ends up that i am doing it with another guy. im getting kinda worried that i might be gay (not that thats really a bad thing but i dont want to be, its my decision anyways it doesnt really matter). do you think it could be from poor control, or maybe that desire that all humans possess to do it with the same sex or something, i dunno. well if you have any comforting words that would be cool, peace.

I find that in my dreams, even in most of my lucid dreams, my higher mind is not fully in control. More often than not, I end up becoming preoccupied with sex for the rest of my dream. It could be that your subconscious just happens to favor guys for some reason. Another possibility is a repressed curiosity, and there's nothing wrong with that.

If it really worries you, just keep in mind that as long as you can distinguish fantasy (dreams) from reality, you are in control.

I remember having some dreams that had homosexual content to it, and I'm not homosexual either. I wouldn't worry about it, I mean if you dream you are killing someone, does that mean you are a killer? If you dream you are a werewolf, are you a werewolf? If being homosexual is something that worries you, maybe that's why it's coming up in your dreams. Or it could be something else entirely. Your dreams don't censor and repress things the way your conscious mind does, as we all know. What reason does a dream have not to deal with homosexuality, violence, incest, or any sort of thing your conscious mind doesn't want to think about.

Like SoulSearcherX said it's common to do things in your dream you would'nt do in real life. I have had a dream where I killed my cousin and stuffed him in a hot tub. It haunted me for a few weeks, but I realized that I would never do that so it doesn't matter.

So don't worry. Your subconscience isn't going to take over and make you go screw a guy. Anyway everyone has at some point had some homosexual fantasy, so your not any different.

In my opinion, just the fact that homosexuality is something you experience in your dreams is not nearly enough to make you a gay person in real life. Haven't you ever dreamed or thought about stealing from your parents or, like pyrox said, killing someone for example? I think these dream ideas come from such a complex train of thoughts that chances are, they have nothing to do with your actual opinion or feelings on these matters in real life. I remember my dad being angry with me just before I went to bed and I dreamt that he had me locked up in a castle and I could go out one or twice a year, eating only bread... The weird part was that in my dream, I thought it was perfectly justified what he did...

So I'd say that if you have some gay experiences in your dream, the amount of possibilities on how they got there is so great that the simplest explanation (you being an actual gay person in real life) doesn't have to be it. If you're having them all the time and you're still freaked out about them, just try and test it in real life :) Stare at a naked hot male for a few minutes or something ^^ That should be enough to convice you (it seems you're not 100% convinced about your heterosexuality, since you created this thread:)) Another thought would be to get more lucid in your dreams and try to figure out why you're having the gay experiences. Use the sex with guys as a BIG dream sign that it's a dream ^^

Hope it helps! Have no shame

- Thom

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alright i thought about making a fake account but it was too hard. well anyways ive had a wierd experience. alright, first off, i do like women. but in my dreams (lucid) when ever i get down and dirty it always ends up that i am doing it with another guy. im getting kinda worried that i might be gay (not that thats really a bad thing but i dont want to be, its my decision anyways it doesnt really matter). do you think it could be from poor control, or maybe that desire that all humans possess to do it with the same sex or something, i dunno. well if you have any comforting words that would be cool, peace.
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Well, there is one sure way of finding out your sexual orientation.... what kind of pornography do you keep?

Nobody wastes money on non-applicable pornography.

If your pornography collection is hetero, but your dreams are homo, well, this means that your Dream Persona is not entirely coincident with your Waking Self.

Just because you have the "I" first person experience of 'being' the Dream Persona when you are dreaming, it does not mean that you ARE the Dream Persona. In many cases during dreams we are simply VISITING a completely different personality.

Here is a question... when you are having a homosexual dream, have you ever looked into a mirror to verify that your Dream Persona is even pretending to be your Waking Self? We often do not know who our Dreaming Persona is. One time I was out taking a walk in a dream and walked by a long reflective glass door and only then noticed that I was not a representation of my Waking Self but was a young svelte woman in her twenties. You think I would have noticed the difference, as I am an old man, but it didn't occur to me in the least that I wasn't 'myself', until I saw it.

So, let us say that you are 'visiting' a homosexual Dream Persona. Well, maybe it is meant to create some sympathy and understanding concerning homosexuals.

Oh, and all of the prejudice is not just on one direction. There are many straights in the artistic and creative communities who are 'closet straights' and try to pass as Homosexuals for the sake of their careers. I myself in the capacity of being a Feline Adoption Advisor, when I have to talk to wives in front of their husbands, in order to be none-threatening, assume a Gay Manner. You think that Straight Guys are spooked by Gay Guys... well not as spooked as a Straight Guy can be when another Straight Guy chitchatting closely with his wife. I don't think I fool the women, but it reassures the spouses.

Now a lot of young men out there are wondering why anybody would ever 'act' gay. Well, I am old now and as an old man I am freer to be myself... Old Men are non-threatening. But when I was young, I noticed that society and nearly every social interaction was colored and influenced by concerns of sexuality. Guys worried about gays. And women either worried about being 'hit' upon, that is approached for sex or dating, or they were maneuvering for just that. But if you were a social person and simply wanted to have sex-neutral interactions with people, then one learned that one had to act reassuringly 'straight' when around the guys, but one had to act 'Gay' if one wanted to act one on one with women without that whole sexual dynamic thing kicking in.

Not much to add, just that you're not the only one! In fact, I'm asexual in real life... no boy (or girl) friend, no need to have a sexual relationship whatsoever. Friendships are my thing, and those can be closer than many romantic relationships.

But in my dreams... old, young, male or female, they've all shown up as partners some time or other. I always feel rather weird when I wake up from one of those, having found myself doing what I don't like to do in real life (or, anyway, don't think I'd like; I don't have any real-life experience--what's the point, if I don't feel like I need to seek it out?). I suppose that those dreams just mean that I have a physical sex drive just like anyone else, and that it's probably rather undefined since I don't use it; I just don't have any emotional need for romance or a sexual partner--I've never in my life had a dream with any romance in it, just sex.

I'm kind of lucky, though, being asexual instead of bi or gay... people don't have nearly the prejudice that they do for bi or gay people. All I get is a patronizing "oh, you just have to find the right man". Like people like me don't exist, or something... Well, we're a minority smaller than gays, but we exist, believe that.

cool topic, I've been wondering about that too since I get it even though I'm not gay. I wake up and it feels really wierd thinking about. Also incest, I get that all the time, and that gives me even wierder feelings after I wake up.

Don't worry about it man.

In some dreams some occasional penis occures aswell, or a bunch of gay-bikers began to strip on stage. As long as it doesn't turn you on, but the touch of a woman does, you are hetrosexual I guess.

What strikes me is that his orientation is pronounced. He says is always leaning to a gay experience.
This would seem to point out you are curious about homosexuality or possibly you do have some gay tendencies.

I think deep down you feel what you feel.
*Are you confused about your gender preference if the dreams were taken out of the scenario?

hmmm..... well to answer leos question about my porn or whatever he said, that was a long time ago, and it was almost all women, there were some times out of curiosity or if something popped up i would watch it or see it that was homo, but not really that much. i am pretty sure now that i am just curious. the thing is that i never really worried about it until i started having homosexual things in my dreams and i think they were sorta carrying over into real life, but that was just because i was sickened and couldnt stop wondering if i really was gay haha. thanks for all yalls comments, im glad that its not just me having this kind of stuff happen.

I think, if you're gay, you don't have to wonder... you just know.

That's what it was like for me; I knew from childhood that I never wanted to get married or have sex with anybody. I was never abused sexually, so that doesn't explain it; it was just there all along.

All the testimonials I've read or heard seem to point towards the idea that gay people generally know they're gay from childhood.

So my opinion... You're almost certainly not gay; you're probably curious what it would be like, though. No wonder--it's such a huge issue in our society, what with equal rights and gay marriage coming up so much in the news; and people who advocate shooting homosexuals sharing the world with people who are so afraid to offend that they walk on eggs around anybody who's gay...

Humans are social animals. We instinctively try to understand other people. I guess your brain is trying to figure out what it's like to be gay. After all, haven't you dreamed you were young, or old, or a different race, or the opposite gender? I know I have.

Dude, when you are fully conscious, if you like girls you like girls...there's nothing to it. You know deep down whether you're gay or straight. I've had similar experiences, although rare. I always wake up and things just don't make sense. I ask myself, why was that a guy? and more importantly, why did i almost get with him? lol

I think it's just a part of your brains exploration process of making sense of your sexuality. If girls turn you on than you like girls, it's that simple.

I've also had gay experiences in my dreams, it never got into sex though. More like hugging and kissing.
First of I was like "What the heck was that?". Later I just thought "Well yeah, dreams can be tricky :P" and then I stopped thinking about it.

If you really refuse in anyway to be gay, which I don't understand, then you're probably not gay.

If you’re worried about it, think about it. There’s nothing wrong with thinking about it. Tomorrow, could you just decide to be attracted to men? If you can, that means you are either gay or bisexual. If you can’t, you’re not. It’s that simple. Attraction isn’t a decision. You can’t just decide to be attracted to a specific person, male or female, because it would be convenient. That’s why I got no problem with homosexuals. I know they haven’t decided to be who they are because I know I can’t make a decision like that. If you think you can make that decision, you might as well accept it. You are bi. If you can’t, you’re not. Either way, no reason to worry.

I dreamed i was a girl once.... that was pretty wierd.

Homosexual behavior for a straight person... like most of us.. I socially unexceptible in waking life. If u think about it this homosexual behavior could b like a "secret" (anytype not just sexual) maybe theres something you want to tell someone(doest have to be sexual). Think about it that way. Tell someone asecret if that helps and I mean an actual secret something worthy talking about not like "Pssst.... Im wearing my socks backwards..." if this doesnt help thn tell someone about this dream and in both instance say it to there face i-2-i contact. If this doesnt help thn someone knows a secret and someone thinks your gay. :)

maybe it's some kind of nightmare?
or maybe your brain is just exploring things that you'd never do yourself. i'll ask my friend if he ever dreamed something like this.

Nightmare = any dream (even a seemingly benign one) with strong negative feelings involved. So if you were scared, angry, disgusted, etc. during the dream then it was a nightmare.

Re. Not being able to change whether you are attracted to someone: I think you can, actually, change that to some degree. Knowing the person well and spending time with them often results in love... thus the fact that arranged marriages are quite often happy ones.

Changing your sexual orientation... that might be more difficult, though. Maybe it happens naturally throughout some peoples' lives. If it's possible artificially, it probably has to do with changing your thoughts first, rather than just forcing yourself to pretend (which is never healthy). And of course you'd have to want to change... I don't think this is being researched because there are still so many people who think gay people are only a step removed from amoebas or something, so nobody wants to encourage them by doing research on changing sexual preferences.

I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Now, take it easy, and go smoke some pot.

yeah, i am definatley attracted to women, thats all i think about. so it is just that my brain must be exploring things, and i was probably just scared because of all the prejudice and stuff that goes down. but i do think you can sort of influence who you like. just imagine them taking a poo and then its all over....

Sexuality can cause the oddest problems...

Once, in one of my travels to India, I came across a curious book by this one self-proclaimed expert on the Kundalini Energy. No, I don't doubt him for a second, as he did in fact describe plausible experiences and visions.

But then there was some phenomena he told about which surprised me. You see, the book had been written largely like a Journal or Diary. The book took years to write. Well, suddenly, almost to the end of the book we are confronted by the fact that this man had been a Homosexual. And he only admits it there because he is telling us that the Kundalini had all at once 'changed' his sexual orientation. Much to his amazement, he suddenly found himself to be 'heterosexual'. And not just leaning toward heterosexuality but being full tilt obsessed with this young lady of his acquaintance. following her around with this throbbing hard-on heterosexual.

I can honestly say that I never heard of such a thing. and I suspect that it was all probably quite true. When one goes book to the earlier sections of the book, the author is indeed discretely leaving out all references to his sexual orientation, knowing that proclaiming his homosexuality would not do him much credit... not in India or any other society... well, accept perhaps San Francisco.

But then all at once to not only be heterosexual, but to be so bizaarly and extremely heterosexual. His stories were embarrassing to read. So they must have been true. Why tell a lie that one would be ashamed of, or that would make one look profoundly silly?

But then one wonders how to account for this sudden and unprecedented change in sexual orientation. The man did not tell us that his entire Personality had changed. There was no complete change in Identity as we would expect from a Revolutionary Coup amidst a bout of Multiple Personality Disorder. We were left with the impression that while everything else remained the same, only his sexual orientation had changed.

However, I wish I remembered the title. It would be good to review such an odd book, in order to see if I could discern any further clues for such a strange phenomena.

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Sexuality can cause the oddest problems...

Once, in one of my travels to India, I came across a curious book by this one self-proclaimed expert on the Kundalini Energy. No, I don't doubt him for a second, as he did in fact describe plausible experiences and visions.

But then there was some phenomena he told about which surprised me. You see, the book had been written largely like a Journal or Diary. The book took years to write. Well, suddenly, almost to the end of the book we are confronted by the fact that this man had been a Homosexual. And he only admits it there because he is telling us that the Kundalini had all at once 'changed' his sexual orientation. Much to his amazement, he suddenly found himself to be 'heterosexual'. And not just leaning toward heterosexuality but being full tilt obsessed with this young lady of his acquaintance. following her around with this throbbing hard-on heterosexual.

I can honestly say that I never heard of such a thing. and I suspect that it was all probably quite true. When one goes book to the earlier sections of the book, the author is indeed discretely leaving out all references to his sexual orientation, knowing that proclaiming his homosexuality would not do him much credit... not in India or any other society... well, accept perhaps San Francisco.

But then all at once to not only be heterosexual, but to be so bizaarly and extremely heterosexual. His stories were embarrassing to read. So they must have been true. Why tell a lie that one would be ashamed of, or that would make one look profoundly silly?

But then one wonders how to account for this sudden and unprecedented change in sexual orientation. The man did not tell us that his entire Personality had changed. There was no complete change in Identity as we would expect from a Revolutionary Coup amidst a bout of Multiple Personality Disorder. We were left with the impression that while everything else remained the same, only his sexual orientation had changed.

However, I wish I remembered the title. It would be good to review such an odd book, in order to see if I could discern any further clues for such a strange phenomena.
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Hmm interresting what you say about his change of sexual preference. I also read that meditating on the Lowest Chacra, at the Groin, can go Wrong and in some cases lead to Perversion and extreme sexual drive, or complete lack of it. I guess it would be the same for sexual dreams, hetero-sexual ones and homosexual ones. I have had homosexual dreams but I can tell you I am straight and in waking Life I am quite disgusted by even the mere sight of 2 men Kissing: Something most hetero sexuals will agree with. Not that I have anything against Gay people, don't get me Wrong. But these dreams usually wake me up feeling all disgusted :P It's kind of terrible and funny at the same time, that you could dream such an unusual thing which you find disgusting in waking life :| Usually I don't plan these dreams and hardly ever get Sexual dreams, just some periods they flood me. And then still they are always Heterosexual dreams, sometimes with girls I REALLY wouldn't have picked to share the Bed with had I met them in waking life :P Homosexual dreams are rare. And quite funny how they leave you awoken with disgust about yourself hahaha :content:

I don't think that, that will mean your gay in real life. Hopefully not. That would suck.

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I don't think that, that will mean your gay in real life. Hopefully not. That would suck.
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Why would I be gay if I never feel attracted to Guys? I'd have surely noticed by now if that were so. I'm 20 and I'm anything but one of those people that are in denial all their life. I'm one to face the facts as they are, stay in touch with reality and deal with it.
It would probably only suck to be Gay, because of the way society treats you. But anyone will find pressure by society morals and norms. I've always lived kind of Free of these norms and values since I have my own beliefs and I'm rather different than ''the avarage person'' so I've always had a struggle with Society and fitting in: I was always the Odd one out. And I take pride in the way I am. I don't need to ''fit in'' to a sort of Society set ideal-way-to-be, I don't need that. Those are illusions. I've got my own thing going.

So if I were gay, I'd have noticed by now and I would certainly not let society supress me: I never let society supress me and do as I wish. And that's okay as long as you keep to the law. Individual Freedom Reigns Supreme! :D


Now the QUESTION here is actually Why HeteroSexual people have HomoSexual dreams. I have had These dreams sometimes and I know alot of others on here had. They're open and honost about it. No need to be prude or Ignorant.

But that doesn't mean you're Gay.
Same for this: I can say wether a guy is good looking and attractive for the ladies; Doesn't mean I feel attracted to the guy. It only means that I can spot out a beautifully formed Human Being when I see one. Now alot of you guys think: ''now that's just Gay'', but You can easily tell when some guy is Ugly when he really is VERY ugly, HONOSTLY. Why wouldn't you be able to say he's handsom if in fact he is? Doesn't make you gay, just means you're honost and using the same Judgement on his looks when you would Judging the damn ugly guy.

I'm not Gay, I'm just honost and open.
I've got a girlfriend, love her and feel very attracted to her too. I've never had this type of feeling for a guy. Neither the Lust nor the love. Only felt that for Girls. I guess you can now fully accept that I'm in fact Straight? :P It wouldn't have worked out between us 2 anywayz :wink: :wink:

That's the whole Mystery: Why do straight people have Homosexual dreams? It is known that no 1 human being is a full 100% Straight or Gay. There's Gay, Straight, Bisexual and every ''sexuality-grade'' in Between basically. Perhaps this is the Reason for Straight people's Homosexual Dreams: To experiment a different Sexuality in a place free of concern and concequences: The DreamWorld, where you can get away with ANYthing.

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I don't think that, that will mean your gay in real life. Hopefully not. That would suck.
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Why is that?

I've had lesbian sex in my dreams, and it's awesome. And I am boy. God help us :lol:

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Hmm interresting what you say about his change of sexual preference. I also read that meditating on the Lowest Chacra, at the Groin, can go Wrong and in some cases lead to Perversion and extreme sexual drive, or complete lack of it. I guess it would be the same for sexual dreams, hetero-sexual ones and homosexual ones. I have had homosexual dreams but I can tell you I am straight and in waking Life I am quite disgusted by even the mere sight of 2 men Kissing: Something most hetero sexuals will agree with. Not that I have anything against Gay people, don't get me Wrong. But these dreams usually wake me up feeling all disgusted :P It's kind of terrible and funny at the same time, that you could dream such an unusual thing which you find disgusting in waking life :| Usually I don't plan these dreams and hardly ever get Sexual dreams, just some periods they flood me. And then still they are always Heterosexual dreams, sometimes with girls I REALLY wouldn't have picked to share the Bed with had I met them in waking life :P Homosexual dreams are rare. And quite funny how they leave you awoken with disgust about yourself hahaha :content:
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Well, like I've said a dozen times, we are not always identical with our Dream Personas. Whether you are a Materialist or a Spiritualist, in either case, one can allow for different clusters of Personality either in the Mind or in the Astral Realms, which the Dreaming Consciousness can link up with while dreaming for that "I" first person experience. It may feel like yourself because you have brought your Ego "I" consciousness along with you, but that body... that Personality Cluster... that Complex of Memories, Motivations, ambitions and drives, that is NOT your Waking Self.

I often suggest to people that they try this experiment while dreaming, that is, to remember something within the dream, for instance, "When was the last time I was at or near this Dream Scene?" Well, if you are anything like myself, this unlocks a flood of memories, indicating clearly that the Dream Persona has a life well outside and beyond that of our Waking Existence. Sometimes with no crossover at all.

Indeed, if Lucid Dreaming has some greater purpose, then I suppose it is just this -- Lucid Dreaming can help integrate and reconcile the diverse Dream Personas and Characters into a synthetic and symbiotic Unity of Oneness.

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Why is that?

I've had lesbian sex in my dreams, and it's awesome. And I am boy. God help us :lol:
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Fuck yeah, i gotta try out that lesbian sex in a dream (I'm a boy)

You should all be ashamed of yourselfs

I'm not sure but last time I checked you aren't gay unless you have your eyes open during intercourse, so just make sure (Dream or Real life) that you keep your eyes closed because being gay is a sin.

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I'm not sure but last time I checked you aren't gay unless you have your eyes open during intercourse, so just make sure (Dream or Real life) that you keep your eyes closed because being gay is a sin.
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Hah, bullshit. So why is being gay a sin? Because your pwecious religion says so? Do you feel happy, that you have to hate all gay people, which is quite a lot actually, just because your religion says so? I know many gay people, and they are very nice. I actually prefer talking to them, more than ordinary people, as they are more open-minded. But I don't want to hi-jack the thread, so yeah, you might want answer this in a PM.

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It's good to see an opinion, from a person who's never tried it. Try it out, and let me hear your opinion.

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I'm not sure but last time I checked you aren't gay unless you have your eyes open during intercourse, so just make sure (Dream or Real life) that you keep your eyes closed because being gay is a sin.
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Is it a Sin? Why actually?
I don't swing that way, okay, but a Gay couple siting next to me on a terrace really doesnt bother me, unless they start kissing eachother rediculously: I can't help but feel qeasy N uneasy whenever I am to witness that. But a straight couple kissing passionately Right in front of my face also annoys me somewhat. So it wouln't be any'EXTRA wrong because they're Gay IMO

But hey it's they're life, not mine. And I would see it as a sin when a Gay guy touches me there where I won't have it. I'll hit him down to the Ground. But it wouldn't be any MORE so wrong than when a Straight guy would touch a Girl indecent when she didn't ask for it.

I protect Individual Freedom :yumdumdoodledum:

We are all aware of most religious views on gays.
This would make a good topic.

Please let's keep this one on track.
If compelled, let's start another discussion in the Religion Forum.
Thanks all! :)

Perhaps Homosexuality in Dreams simply indicates an overemphasis of sexuality in the expression of affection, as for instance, that a young man who is sincerely fond of a young lady will be almost obsessive about expressing this affection in terms of sexuality -- "Say 'I love you' with a sqirt sqirt sqirt". So what happens if a young man also begins to have an honest admiration for another young man... well, with all affection so geared toward sexuality, during Dreams the distinction of sexual gender is put aside.

One has to begin to practice expressing affection and regard for people of both genders without regard to any sexual behaviors. Now, it is very easy for me, and old man, to say such a thing, as my advanced age has to a large part liberated me from the tyrannical urges and impulses imposed by a young and healthy libido. I no longer see women, even young and attractive women, as sexual objects, and so I don't see other males as rivals.

Oh, and we may wonder just how much Dream Homosexuality is just simple Primate Mounting Behavior. This is not Sexuality but Dominance Behavior.

In all of this Dream Homosexuality, how many of you guys have been on the bottom, and how many have been on top. Perhaps that is the important factor. Are you being the Dominator or are you being dominated.

How to interpret such a thing? Well, if one is doing all the Mounting in one's Dreams, being the King of the Mountain, so to speak. Then this would be some sign that one was a Leader among Men. Your Dreams are telling you that you are a Dominant Alpha Male. Well, good. That is Great.

But if you are on the bottom... if you are doing the grooming as an act of submission, then you should face the fact that you will never be King of the World, and that you are here to serve, to be loyal, and to be useful as a member of the Team. No, you will never have to bend over for anybody, or groom anybody submissively -- that was just the dreams way of telling you that in a World of Leaders and Followers, you are a follower.

There is nothing wrong with knowing one's place.

I've had a dream like that and it really really freaked me out...The weird part is that it was the first time it happened in a dream...And what was even weirder is that it happened with someone I hate...

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Perhaps Homosexuality in Dreams simply indicates an overemphasis of sexuality in the expression of affection, as for instance, that a young man who is sincerely fond of a young lady will be almost obsessive about expressing this affection in terms of sexuality -- "Say 'I love you' with a sqirt sqirt sqirt". So what happens if a young man also begins to have an honest admiration for another young man... well, with all affection so geared toward sexuality, during Dreams the distinction of sexual gender is put aside.

One has to begin to practice expressing affection and regard for people of both genders without regard to any sexual behaviors. Now, it is very easy for me, and old man, to say such a thing, as my advanced age has to a large part liberated me from the tyrannical urges and impulses imposed by a young and healthy libido. I no longer see women, even young and attractive women, as sexual objects, and so I don't see other males as rivals.

Oh, and we may wonder just how much Dream Homosexuality is just simple Primate Mounting Behavior. This is not Sexuality but Dominance Behavior.

In all of this Dream Homosexuality, how many of you guys have been on the bottom, and how many have been on top. Perhaps that is the important factor. Are you being the Dominator or are you being dominated.

How to interpret such a thing? Well, if one is doing all the Mounting in one's Dreams, being the King of the Mountain, so to speak. Then this would be some sign that one was a Leader among Men. Your Dreams are telling you that you are a Dominant Alpha Male. Well, good. That is Great.

But if you are on the bottom... if you are doing the grooming as an act of submission, then you should face the fact that you will never be King of the World, and that you are here to serve, to be loyal, and to be useful as a member of the Team. No, you will never have to bend over for anybody, or groom anybody submissively -- that was just the dreams way of telling you that in a World of Leaders and Followers, you are a follower.

There is nothing wrong with knowing one's place.
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wow... very interesting. i like how your taking the dream and putting into something we can actually use in real life and how to find out about ourselves. but i think we can change the way we are, like if someone was the one giving i dont think he will NEVER be a leader. in my case i go both ways... giving and recieving. yeah we should start a gay topic somewhere, i might start it if someone hasnt already.

Hehe...Been there! It wasn't really a lucid dream though, but you know. I like women too but yeah what they said.

theres nothing wrong with being gay, sorry but if its a reccurring thing then theres not much more to say. :|

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I'm not sure but last time I checked you aren't gay unless you have your eyes open during intercourse, so just make sure (Dream or Real life) that you keep your eyes closed because being gay is a sin.
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I am not gay but I have gay friends and there is nothing wrong with them and they are just the same as anyone else.
NO meaning to offend anyone but SHhhh ... about ur sinning and go post in a different forum jswift (also delete ur comment because i imagine it is very offensive to gays) because now the topic has been ruined and has changed into something alng the lines of " the philosophy of gay"

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im fairly confident that most people here are well past the part of thinking any different of homosexuals and the thought of it being wrong. most of us are fairly forward-thinking, seeing as the nature of this forum is lucid dreaming, so lets all try to not make ourselves look like asses by posting being gay is a sin, shall we? there are just too many counterarguements to any statement like that so it would end up getting us all off topic.

now back on topic ;)
you've seen enough support that you're probably not really gay and that your mind is just curious so there is no need for me to support it with my own personal dreams, but i just wanted to let you know there's nothing to worry about.

oh and by the way, bro: if you feel the need to post your problems anonymously in the future, when you use the "Help!" forum, you have the option to post with complete anonymity :)

well i made a different subject about gays on the religion forum... if you guys wanna go check that out instead of writing on this one.

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It's good to see an opinion, from a person who's never tried it. Try it out, and let me hear your opinion.
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are you trying to tell me to try and being gay, see if i like it, then tell my opinion? No thanks. I've never chopped my hand off with a machete, but I know I wouldn't like that.

Your argument= irrelivent

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Ya im pretty sure that was what the person meant, to go and blatantly sin.

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well i made a different subject about gays on the religion forum... if you guys wanna go check that out instead of writing on this one.
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Go and check out FluBB's other topic on gays in the religion/philosophy type forum rather thatn clogging this one up!

Hoorah to that. I say tomato, you say tomato (you know what I mean). Either way, regardless of anyone's religion or just plain out beliefs, that isn't what this is about. The only thing that matters is about this persons opinions, not mine, not yours.

I believe tht homosexual behavior in a dream for a straight person is something.. like hiding something from someone or a group.

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Ya im pretty sure that was what the person meant, to go and blatantly sin.
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No. If you'd read the entire thread, you might've got my point. Go try homosexual sex in a dream. Could be gay sex, could be lesbian.