even though when I first started to involve myself in lucid dreaming, I was eager to play God - so to speak. now that I am a more mature lucid dreamer, the majority of the time when I am lucid dreaming (meaning that I am fully aware that I am dreaming..) I always chose to not tamper with what is going on.. and simply 'observe' and relax. I am finding that I have no need to 'drastically' control what is happening in my dreams.. (when I am in the dream) because nothing needs fixing. does anybody understand where I am coming from? I need to chat about this.....