I have a reoccuring dream guy... many threads of mine questioning him... reality ect... He downright confuses me.

He has been in my dreams forever. I'll go with age 3 being as far back as I recall. From age 3 to around age 10 he acted as a protector, promised to keep me safe no matter what. He appeared to be 16 in those dreams.

Age 10-14, he was more a friend and protector. We danced a lot. He still seemed to be around age 16 but he changed a bit.. hair was a bit shorter, added a blonde streak to it.

Age 14-16, he stayed in the "background" of the dream. Still appearing to be around 16.

At age 16 I had a dream about him but not sure if it was him, weird feelings about it.... and he asked me a question to which I answered the equivalent to no and he left me.. or so it appeared till now age 21.

Now he appears to be my age. Shorter hair. More "mature" in build. More a lover in my dreams now.. what confuses me is I am married. I have recently asked him some pointed questions to which he cannot answer... why he left, what is his name. He can't answer.

I'd love theories on him... anything. But yes... I have a recurring character. Also now have a recurring cat... only 2 dreams but I was told by the guy that she was to be here forever now.