dont worry too much, if he bought you a ticket to see him it must mean he cares about you. I dont think the dream was a premonition or something, I think you had it becuase of your personal fears about the relationship. |
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Me and my bf fight all the time we have a long distance relationship, he thinks i never trust him cuz he looks at girls or whatever or porn and i always yell at him about it and we hang up and stuff.. and now he has a job and i get jealous that he might leave me.. and stuff like that... well.. |
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dont worry too much, if he bought you a ticket to see him it must mean he cares about you. I dont think the dream was a premonition or something, I think you had it becuase of your personal fears about the relationship. |
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Well thanks. I hate porn and i tell my bf to never look at it and he gets pissed at me and says he never does.. |
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This is me.. ^_^ Made by roseberry
I think that your dreams is just you worst fear. I really don't think that it is all true. My bf tells me if you expect the worst when you get there everything seems so much better. |
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Love like you have never been hurt before
Ask bf if when he is looking at you he cannot help but compare you with the images that he has burned into his brain by looking at that stuff (porn). If you don't want him looking at it, give him some kind of ultimatum... it might be one good test to see if he is truly committed to a relationship with you. |
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"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me; a prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:8
what kind of test? |
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Wouldn't want to impose as if I'm an authority on relationships or anything, but I might suggest telling him to get rid of da porn... |
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"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me; a prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:8
As long as he doesn't like stare at other girls infront of you, I wouldn't really worry about it. Everyone looks at others some times, looking doesn't mean anything. Same goes for porn. If you both love each other, I would just try to ignore it. If you can't, well then you need to talk to him. If you do, don't yell at him and just say its disgusting though. A better way to go about it is to explain why it makes you feel bad that he looks at it. |
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Well like evangel I am no authority on relationships or anything, but I wouldn't test him like that. Relationships goes both way and you shouldn't demand people to do stuff "just because". No one really likes being bossed around. I would suggest explaining why you don't like it. |
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Love like you have never been hurt before
I agree with Alric, me and my GF had that talk a few days ago, I made me totaly understand how she feels |
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From Up aCes street, Kerry's manY Orange Yams.
Oh my god, can you work out the puzzle?
Sure, tact is great. If he can't handle the fact that you don't like him looking at porn, be tactful, but he should be able to respect your concern, especially if it has to do with something like this. If looking at porn is more important to him than pleasing you, he doesn't deserve you. |
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"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me; a prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:8
She did mention that this is a long distance relationship, so I'm confused when you guys talk about "him being satisfied with her and drop the porn", when they aren't constantly in actual face-to-face contact. |
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Long distance relationship: |
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"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me; a prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:8
Thank you. |
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This is me.. ^_^ Made by roseberry
Certainly sounds like he's a keeper, I guess I just have strong feelings about porn since I've had negative experiences and have heard several bad stories about it affecting relationships and marriages negatively. |
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"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me; a prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:8
If you where ugly he wouldn't be with you. You shouldn't think things like that. It sounds like he does love you. |
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But love doesnt mean about how pretty or ugly i am. IT doesnt always depend upon looks. |
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This is me.. ^_^ Made by roseberry
I must say that was an interesting dream. I experienced something like that in real life as did my sister. I look at reality when it comes to relationships and maybe my experiences have made me a bit harsh in my outlook. This is the way i see it... |
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"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me; a prayer to the God of my life."
Psalm 42:8
ones wen me and him were sleeping he wus still up and like he would put this channel on when he thought i was sleeping and i heard the tv and it talked about "oh how about we show her how to do sexual intercourse on the table" he told me doesnt watch that stuff but i didnt get it why he watched it wen he thought i was sleeping or whatever. -shrugs- and after the commercial went on he changed the channel. or like he always watches sports i dont get wats so interesting about sports anyway. |
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This is me.. ^_^ Made by roseberry
and when you reach that ultimatum and after hes "removed" the stuff from his compy, go through the temp file, and check it, delete it all, then go through the favorite file, and delete it all, then check the url bar, again, delete it all, run a search on the compy and delete it all |
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veteran of the darkmyst #dreamviews
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i should do that? |
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This is me.. ^_^ Made by roseberry
Most (all!?) of us males like looking at porn regardless. We enjoy it too much i suppose. Kinda like the need to eat chocolate...mmmm...chocolate |
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roseberry contact me some time... MSN, Yahoo, AIM, PM whatever your pleasure. I would love to talk to you about this and work some things out. I have been through similar things and maybe i can help. Be strong girly! |
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