I don't know if this is exactly what you were asking for, but I had a semi-lucid dream once that gave me GREAT insight into the current state (at the time) of my relationship with my girlfriend. I was feeling pressure to try to "keep up" with her and be a certain way. The dream that gave me some perspective of this was kind of funny, but also felt very meaningful by the time it was over. It featured a long "reality-show" type race through a city/country. I was busy running most of the time and then I realized it wasn't real (not sure if I realized it was a dream, though) and I slowed down and felt much more at peace, by the end I had found my girlfriend again and we laid in the grass together and shared our experience. The basic feeling I got was that no matter what our individual pace and style, we will get to the same place to share our experiences later and that I really shouldn't feel pressured to be a certain way or keep a certain pace - the race is imaginary. It really added a perspective to my life and I think it still rings true for me. |
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