why do you suppose...

**medicinewoman** · 11-18-2003 11:10 PM

most of the members here are male? it took me a few tries to find posts made my women.

**wasup** · 11-18-2003 11:52 PM

Cuz guys are usually weirder than girls maybe?? (Weird people like me look up on weird sites that lead them to other sites that lead them to another weird site... that's how I got here)

**A Lost Soul** · 11-19-2003 12:19 AM

Wasup, you kill me sometimes.
*Raises her hand proudly*
I'm a girl!

**Silver Sphere** · 11-19-2003 12:25 AM

Because guys are all depraved perverts, and they get into lucid dreaming to get laid by dream women.

Uh, not me though.

**Aphius** · 12-01-2003 05:24 AM

Really?

I got into it to fly

**Seeker** · 12-01-2003 03:53 PM

Originally posted by wasup
Cuz guys are usually weirder than girls maybe?? (Weird people like me look up on weird sites that lead them to other sites that lead them to another weird site... that's how I got here)

You know wasup, I've always suspected that testosterone works as a trigger. I think all people have a tendancy to be wierd, it's just that most females lack the hormonal trigger that makes them act on it.

Lucius, O'neas - You guys have any input into this from a psychological view?

**Lucius** · 12-01-2003 04:18 PM

I dont really have time to explain this from that point of view right now, but how about I give another simple explaination?

Guys spend more time on the internet so end up with sites/forums more likely,

but then pops up the question why do guys spend more time on the internet?

Its actually all the same, why do males do more of this and why do females do more of that. Its just the way males and females think,internet is more of a male thing( correct me if im wrong but I think being on the internet,and posting on forums is more done by males)
Just like going on shopping spree is more of a female thing.
Same reason why females have diffirent dreams then males(research has proven so,example males tend to dream more about violence,and females dream more about family)

Might seem simple but its not very easy to declare, females just think diffirently,its not only the hormones,its also the parts of the brain used. Why this is so, I cannot say, this is just the way it is, I refer to scientic articles..

So,part of the female/male acting is set by their natural, another part is set by the general opinion of the society.If society thinks its normal for females not to work and only be housewife(like in the past) this will happen,also females will not take any leadership positions and do not even want to take any positions with high responsibility because thats they way society thinks and influences them

Another thing is that that in many religions and spiritual happenings the male is mostly pictured the greater and more enlighted person.Most(all?) prophets are male, most priests are male,most masters are male, gurus are male, enlighted persons are male and so on.Sub consiously females might still think that such matters should be left to the male population

Thats all i can say(for now), I havnt really had much on this topic so im making free shot here..

Gues i did have time for a bit lol

**nerve** · 12-01-2003 04:43 PM

grrrr....

**Lucius** · 12-01-2003 05:04 PM

Hey its not my fault lol, its the females that make themselves that way, but your diffirent of course, i can see that

(thats in a positive way)

**Lowercase Society** · 12-01-2003 05:15 PM

yah...men...so what...???
why a big deal?

at least its not an all out sausage fest.

Tyler Durden: You are not your job. You are not the money in your bank account. You are not the car you drive. You are not how much money is in your wallet. You are not your fucking khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.[/b]

**Seeker** · 12-01-2003 05:33 PM

Back on topic. I wish more of our female population would post more often.
Paperdoll is the only "regular" of that gender.
Seems like Jill and Lost Soul have lost interest... we don't hear much from them anymore

**Lucius** · 12-01-2003 05:38 PM

I gues your right..we dont have that much female regulars around here, then do we have that much "regulars" around..i mean I have a feeling its less busy then when i first joined , dunno, is that just me

**Seeker** · 12-01-2003 05:46 PM

It was kind of slow when I first joined, then it seemed we had a real increase in members. Now, yeah, kind of slowing down again.
I think there are only a few of us that are online at this time of day.
Seems busier after midnight(GMT)

**Lowercase Society** · 12-01-2003 10:02 PM

well i am located in Europe, so there is a major time zone difference here than the US. so i can post when i can. but usually you guys are asleep and dreaming when i am posting durning the day

Tyler Durden: You are not your job. You are not the money in your bank account. You are not the car you drive. You are not how much money is in your wallet. You are not your fucking khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.[/b]

**nikfz** · 12-01-2003 11:02 PM

I see .... so Im in a group of wierdooo here ... hahahahahahahahahaaa

So Im a wierdooo too.... aaarrggghhhhhh .... I guest Im the only one from the East Asia. ... hahahahahahahahaaaa

Its funy how I was happy to find somebody out there just like me.... just to feel Im not a wierdoo .. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

**nerve** · 12-01-2003 11:25 PM

I AM A SEXY MAN

**jill1978** · 12-01-2003 11:32 PM

I'm here seeker, and I'm of the female persuation...I've just been too tired to write lately, not that I'm too cool and have better things to do, cause that's not it....I dont know why there are more guys, I cant even think of an answer for that one....

**nerve** · 12-01-2003 11:35 PM

not that I'm too cool and have better things to do, cause that's not it....[/b]

suuuuuuure....

**Seeker** · 12-02-2003 12:11 AM

Originally posted by Paperdoll EP
I AM A SEXY MAN

Oh yeah! I guess it's that black lipstick and eye makeup that really does it for me!

**Lowercase Society** · 12-02-2003 10:50 AM

you know, seeker has a good point there...
those goth chicks...really turn me on like nothing else

except for brandon boyd, of course.

this torment inside me is growin', like a flower in the spring time rain, but all i feel is dismay.[/b]

**Aphius** · 12-02-2003 11:29 AM

I find gothic women attractive for some reason, its just the whole look i think... dark lipstick, eye shadow and all that.

Back to the topic at hand, another reason that more males tend to be on this site, could be that a lot of them may be unsatisfied in their daily lives, i dont mean sexually but just unsatisfied generally. maybe they try to lucid dream as a way to exert their frustrations or to live out their fantasies. Possibly to be a millionaire or to take over the world (its a guy thing). but i suppose that it could also be sexual reasons for wanting to lucid dream... who knows.

*goes about his day blissfully unaware

**Seeker** · 12-02-2003 01:02 PM

I'm here to learn. And help others to of course.

Everything about my lucid dreaming had improved since I started hanging out here. I have them more frequently, I have better control, they tend to last longer and be more vivid.
I've also realized just how far I have to go! Some of you guys/and gals are doing amazing things, and given me some ideas that I want to work on.

I'm glad I stumbled onto this site and hope that I can return the favor by helping out others!

**Lowercase Society** · 12-02-2003 01:07 PM

i persnonally, have no unsatisfaction in my life, to a large extent.
but i love learning new things, and i love dreaming, etc. and i am making friends in the process.
YOU GUYS!and girls.

this is me with the words on the tip of my tongue, and my eye through the scope down the barrel of a gun.
this is you trying hard to be seen, with a girl on your arm, and your heart on your sleeve.[/b]

**Seeker** · 12-02-2003 01:19 PM

Paperdoll,
I think it is time to change your gender back! You are starting to confuse people. And besides thinking of you as a man is really messing with my head.