Once again, thank you all for your time and answers.

I've been talking to her about this, and she was a bit receptive to the idea, however manage to make her really understand and try this seriously is going to take a little more time and work.

Having her to come here and talk about it is simply not possible, she just avoids talking about what happened to her, what I've learn was the little she said, what I could read *in the lines* and what I've heard while she was having these nightmares.

I think telling a bit about her dream is ok. Basically as I understand she was abused sexually by an adult when she was a child (less then 10 years old) - that was no dream that really happened, what she dreams over and over is this abuse, so basically she is living it over and over again. I don't know if in her dream she is a child again or a woman, I do know that sometimes people that she knows now appear in that dream, and basically somehow go along with the abuse thing.. I believe if she wants to go and try lucid dreaming this might be one good sign for her to hold on since this would be really something hard to be happening..

I only know that this nightmare is horrible that I'm sure for her reactions.

Amethist Star if you and others would be willing to help me out establishing this plan I would be really grateful. It was my intention to read all I could about the subject but basically I am in all ways a newbie about it, I ended here while searching for how to stop nightmares... I will definetly try it myself too.

On the lighter side, having the chance to dream about catherine zeta-jones and a desert island from times to times is not such a bad idea

once again thank you all,

kind regards

helio