I'd suggest becoming lucid, and deal with the situations in dream time (seems to fix the issue for me) |
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Does anyone in this group know how to control dreams that are based around problems, suggested in the title?, for the last few nights, all i dream about is situations in which i have done somthing wrong, etc Making rats appear in my friends garden because i droped rubbish, being afriad of people who spraypaint my house, running away from an x-girlfriend etc. If someone can give me imput that would be excellent :-) |
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"I was looking back to see if you were looking back at me to see me looking back at you".
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I'd suggest becoming lucid, and deal with the situations in dream time (seems to fix the issue for me) |
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Thanks for the advice, i do tend to lack in confidence, thats the area i thought i need improving also! ive become really nurotic lately, no reason behind it though, before being 22 i used to be so relaxed, i think with age comes all of lifes little problems (lol) as for becoming Lucid, good advice mate! |
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"I was looking back to see if you were looking back at me to see me looking back at you".
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Are your days really busy causing you to be stressed? If so, it may be transfering to your dreams. Then, if that's the case, I'd suggest taking/making time for yourself. Just sit down close your eyes and just relax. Focus on not doing anything for a little while. Or, go sit in a hot tub if you can. Especially do this before bed and try to go to sleep in a (for lack of better word) pleasant mood. I find that going to sleep in a good mood leaves my dreams odd at worst, and wonderful at best. |
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"If there was one thing the lucid dreaming ninja writer could not stand, it was used car salesmen."
Thanks for the advice, I appreciate you guys spending the time in writing the message, not to sure about reading the bible to relax me though, more like scare me (lol) how can you read that book and be relaxed for sleep? My mind would be on overdrive! I usually do read before bed buts its usually fantasy based (stuff like Peter Pan, Treasure Island, Dream books etc) I’ve been thinking, the problem might be caused by totally giving up things that I usually rely on, I’ve stopped smoking tobacco, drinking and smoking weed, been about 2 weeks now, so that could be the reason behind my sudden change in dream anxieties? I’m not sure how to control it though, becoming conscious in dreams is so much more difficult now, its like a new programme, starting from the beggining again (lol) last night I had a dream in which I had to catch a bus (the number was 39) I missed it, they all seem to revolve around me missing somthing or avoiding somthing. |
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"I was looking back to see if you were looking back at me to see me looking back at you".
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"If there was one thing the lucid dreaming ninja writer could not stand, it was used car salesmen."
Its not stressful during my waking life, just getting on as normal etc, but my dream life seems to be effected 100%, last night I also had really bad nightmare. Dreams in which I woke up repeatedly, for no reason I felt I’ll afterwards (etc) I could use it as a dream sign but the anxiety takes over my conscious mind. Last night I managed to ‘get rid’ of it by using semi- lucidity techniques. |
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"I was looking back to see if you were looking back at me to see me looking back at you".
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