I've had one....

[lifeisgreat]

Ok well I have been in love with this girl and I've been haveing dreams about her for the past month or two. I'm going out with her and all so there's nothing wrong with liek a crush or something... But I have been interested A LOT in lucid dreaming and ever sence I have I've tried dreaming, like the recall sugestions and it hasn't worked for me. I remember about one year ago. I had no idea about lucid dreams or anything. But I controlled that one for a short time. I did 2 things in taht in my controll. But I tottaly remember that dream. But back to this girl..I think about her all the time and that is love but it's just kinda hard to fall asleep and not think about her? Like I want another lucid dream and to keep doing it but it's hard not thinking about her. So what should I do to be able to practice this. Like we REALLY love each other like more than I've loved any one. But any ways I know I could probably have dreams about her a lot but I don't want some like nasty ass dreaming coming up. Cause I'm looking for adventure in lucid dreams. But I wouldn't mind a nasty ass dream once or twice. LOL Well you know what I mean like I've been having trouble ever sence I've been trying to recall. P.S. My nutz itch...

[Amethyst Star]

Hey LIG. (we're all about acronyms here ) Thanks for joining us here at DV and I hope you find what you're looking for. Well, there's a lot you can do in a dream, especially with other dream characters (ie. your girlfriend). You can go on a mission, frolic through flowers, become karate masters, etc. Just use your imagination. Once you become lucid (which is the hard part), just work on summoning her up from your memory and enjoy your sleeping life. Check out the tutorials first and try some stuff out. If you have any other questions feel free to ask -Amé

[lifeisgreat]

Yeah thx, I take it you read my profile and if you didn't your crazy about the karate thing. But yea smauri is my main goal. LOL But no really I was wondering like is there a way I can become better with recall like while thinking of her? Cause it's hard to not think of her. So I'm wondering is there a way I can include her while being able to have better recall? Sorry probably a dumb question but you know I'm new.

[Umbrasquall]

Another very good way this can actually help you out is to think of your girlfriend every morning and recall experiences with her. Since you'll probably dream of her a lot when you try to recall stuff you'll realize some of it didn't really happen. Those will be your dreams. Then just write them down in a journal and you're on your way to excellent recall! Furthermore, I would actually label your girlfriend as a sign for reality checks. This will also help you to get lucid. And after you do, you can change the dream scenerio as you wish.

[lifeisgreat]

Yo, that sounds like a really god advice actually. Thanks dude I'll get back to you on that.

[Umbrasquall]

So how's been working out?