And why in dreams and not in waking hours? hmm.. Perhaps it's easier to "make contact" on the dream plane? I dont know anything about this, but that just sounds logical to me.
And since many people would be freaked out by seeing "dead people", it might be easier for these spirits to i.e. deliver a message, since you have an more open mind in your dreams.

Makes sense?[/b]
Yes, I believe you are right, I would definitely be freaked out if I saw a spirit in my waking hours.....I think that by coming to me in my dreams I accept them easier.
Thanks for the welcome,btw!

octoberchild