hi everyone!
first let me explain my situation
i have been trying to lucid dream for over a year
i have a dream journal
i remember at least 1-2 dreams a night
i do reality checks often, i have tried both wild (stayed up for 3 hours once and still nothing) and mild, and most other methods
i stopped thinking about it to see if i was thinking too much
i tried lucid dreaming while napping
but still
after a year
i have not had a lucid dream
when i get up and remember the dream i think to myself "How on earth did i not realize that it was a dream"???
i mean heck, most of my dreams include stuff that just shouldnt happen

example, i am skiing and its summertime was one of them
i am with my cousins who are a 7000 miles away
i am playing tag with animals and my cousins
im still in highschol when i already graduated
its so obvious yet i still cant realize its a lucid dream

is it just possible that i just cant lucid dream or am i just doing something completely wrong?