Well i've read almost everything here and i still don't get it.
In almost all my dreams, i realize im dreaming but i don't do anything about it because i didn't know i could. I've been lucid twice when i was little but i didnt realize i was controlling my dreams
1. i was dreaming in my dream, and in the dream in my dream there was this giant flood and somehow the room next to me was filled with water. so in the dream i woke up, forced myself out of the bed walked over and opened the door. then i woke up

and like a little while ago someone was calling my phone and im usually watching myself in my dream like a movie and myself in the dream takes out her phone (my phone) and she goes, "Wait a minute, I must be dreaming!" Then i wake up and pick up my phone. I dont know how to switch from 3rd person POV to 1rst person POV. and last night i tried to, but i can't remember my dream and i don't think i dreamt.
I dont have a clue what WILD-ing is at all and i just want to be able to control my dreams, like fly or have my boyfriend be in my dream. Ive flown before but i don't think i was controlling it.
HELP ME ATTAIN LUCIDITY i have no clue how to do it!