im new. i just wanted to ask a few questions. 1st off im not new to lucid dreaming i just never new wat it was called till recently now i find this sight and i see something new. what is a wild? 2nd when not lucid sometimes when im dreaming i dont veiw the dream through my eyes i kind of look at my self from the 3rd person iv asked all my mates and none of them do this has any1 done this. and finaly iv found something out recently. after spliting with a gf a few months back and started sleeping alone i whould not dream (or recall them) for days on end but as soon as id sleep with someone i whould have the most vivid lucid dreams can anyone shed some light on being with someone in bed can help lucid dreaming it seems to work for me. or maybe sex helps?