A Fool In Love

[destinyblade]

well as youve probably guessed, something good romantically has happened for me but to explain the whole thing properly im going to have to go back a while (sorry if its a boring read) well id say back to about year 6 i statred to like or as we called it back then 'fanncy' a girl called Olivia(yes yes olive oil jokes) and well my friends kind of liked her aswell, so one by one they attempted and failed to ask her out and then i tryed but was to nervous to say anything, so i chickened out. in year 7 another girl this one i truely liked, i watched from the sidelines planning my move, but there was this mental block becuase i thought the outcome would be no (which it probably would have been) so i kind of forgot about her as she began to change in year 10 and my gaze was averted to yet another girl, i tend to watch her from afar, and i was to nervous really to speak to her in person and then a prom was announced i knew i had to ask but just couldnt find the right way, when it took all my courage and i did, i had to do it through msn but at least i did it eh? and now theres no mental block just a nervous one, so i may properly ask her out soon, but well i guess im just A Fool In Love.

[Rav1]

A fool in love? I don't think so... At your age you take things too seriously, although this kind of sensitivity is well welcome anytime. Instead of falling in love at first sight I'd rather advice you to keep in touch with friends and learn from each other "the basics of healty relationships". Love can be very destructive when you are not prepared for all the obstacles on its way.

[destinyblade]

too be fair, i dont think i was in love before just admiration of beauty, but now she just seems so right, comprehende?

[becomingagodo]

all your planning does not make up the fact you are a coward. i had the same problem as you however this made me become obessive and cause me to move from dumb class in school too top class at school i rvrn got most improve student at end of year. well your bone are not made out of glass act now untill you will regreat it like you proberly regreat asking your first love out. too be fair, i dont think i was in love before just admiration of beauty, but now she just seems so right, comprehende?[/b] just admit you were a coward and ask your new affection out. i would rather be rejected then see my self as a coward would you destinyblade?

[Rav1]

now she just seems so right, comprehende? [/b] Yes, she seems...seems So good luck and go ahead!

[destinyblade]

thank you, i will try and make an effort (seeing the error of my ways and all that jazz) theres no point cowering behind somnething, at least she going to the prom with me its not like she said no, so ive gotta do the best i can with what i have, do be stupid just be myself, il be stupid to waste such an excellent chance at a first relationship.

[irishcream]

just take it easy, have a nice time with her. Be friends first, and see if something develops. You find her attractive, but how much have you spoken to her, and how well do you know her? Initial attraction can fizzle out when you get to know someone and you find they aren't the person you thought they were. Real love comes from getting to know someone 'warts and all'.