Trust is something of great importance to me, and many people. To know that you can trust someone so much and know that you can tell them somehting and not have it be half wayaround the school, or work place, or whatever... is just an all our good feeling. to know that someone trusts you that much is also a good feleing.
But to lose that trust is not such a good feleing. To do something, or say something that breaks that trust is bad. It hurts. Everyone of us had broken some bodies trust at least once in our loves, whether it was a friend, or a family member. To try and regain that trust seems almost impossible, unreachable. Once that trust is gone it is hard to get it back. For example, about two years ago i did something that completly destroyed my mothers trust in me, and i am still yet to fully regain that trust.
To have someone that you think you can trust, someone that you care about break that trust, it is an unexplainable feeling. Your stomach clenches up, you feel light headed, you cry, you want to get sick. Those are just a few of the feelings that come to mind. To have that person do tat makes you feel as if you can never trust anyone again, it makes you feel as if that person has betrayed you. Done the most unimaginable thing ever.
But to be the person that broke that trust is just as bad. You get the same feelings. The stomach clenching, the light headedness, the crying, and the feling of wanting to get sick. Yes you have all of those, except they are not from hurt, from knowing that you hurt a loved one or a friend. No it is from guilt, guilt from knowing that person will never trust you again. Guilt from knowing that person will probaly never look at you in the same way. Guilt from knowing you will never ever be told anything about that persons life again. Guilt from knowing that YOU of all people did what you swore you would never do, hurt your friend or loved one. Guilt form knowing that you caused your friend pain. Guilt from knowing you will never get that trust back. And worry/fear. Worry/fear that this particilar person will never want to talk to you again. worry/fear that you have lost your best friend.
This is my veiws on trust. This is how important i think it is.
What are your veiws?
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