I have had this many times and it is really becoming a reoccuring experience. |
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I have had this many times and it is really becoming a reoccuring experience. |
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I've not had anything like this, but I encourage you to continue to work through this. Obviously, your subconcious is trying to deal with something. Lucky for you that you are a lucid dreamer, it should make it easier to work though and you should be able to do it much more quickly than a non-lucid dreamer. |
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you must be the change you wish to see in the world...
-gandhi
I've never heard anyone knowingly talk to their dream people. I've tried talking to my boyfriend while he slept to try to positively influence his dreams. I only tried it a few times but one time he popped out of bed and put his arms around me (I was sitting on the couch near the bed which is on the floor) and he said a full sentence to me. I said "what?" I thought he was a wake but he said the exact same thing again. I still didn't understand, then he laid back down and didn't move again. He didn't remember it the next morning. I thought, from what you said, sounds that like me, you wanted to influence the dreamer positively. It sounded like you were trying to comfort them. I thought you seemed like you were letting them know someone real was there for them and to not be scared because it was a dream. I'm not entirely sure just from what you described, but a lot of times I'll try to help people feel comforted for the same thing I'd want to be comforted for also. For example, someone feels lonely and you give them a hug and tell them you're there for them, but you wish at the same time someone would do the same thing for you without you asking them first. I might be completely off, but you might just need someone to talk to you while you're dreaming to let you know that person is there and they're real. I'd ask my partner to try to stay a wake and notice for eye lid movement (REM). Wait a bit, then start saying comforting things. Since you're lucid I'd think that might help without actually waking you up so you could perhaps over come that dream. |
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Thanks for the replies. I am still trying to deal with these dreams. I believe the dreams might be related to all the horrible things I have seen and read on the news over the years. I really greive other peoples injustices. |
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I also have tried asking questions of dream characters when lucid .I read that it is interesting to ask them the question "what do you do when I am not here?" so I tried that but their reaction frightened me so much I have not tried anything like that since . |
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Wow that is a great question! What kind of replies did you get? I am sure to try this in my next lucid state. Scared to ask but I know myself I will do it. Thanks for sharing. :-) |
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Dear Dreamlyn, |
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Hi Leo |
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all the hairs on my arm and neck just rised when i read through this post, really scary, and really interesting! |
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When my wife was pregnant with my son I met him in a lucid dream. I was fishing with a boy. I looked over and asked who he was. He said his name was Brandon, my son. I knew my wife had not given birth yet. This pushed me to lucidity. He was such a handsome boy when I looked at him as if for the first time. I asked him if he was alright. He told me he was and told me not to blame myself for anything that happens when he's grown. I told him I was responsible for him. He told me just for raising him, not what he does as an adult. That was such a powerful dream that we were gonna name him Justin. And named him Brandon because of the dream. Today he is serving time in prison and I think his words in the dream was help for me. I don't blame myself. I did the best I could. He made his own mistake. I miss him, and love him, but ultimately it was his choice. (he told me that) |
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I have had more than 11 lucid dreams in my lifetime. I want to enjoy them nightly.
dreamlyn, I had one dream where I was in a lab as the test subject, I remember it vividly. I will share it here, even though it's a little perverted. |
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