I have been trying on and off for about 3 weeks, but the last 3 days i really focused, did many reality checks and suggestions, and wrote down 2-3 dreams every night. Heres the dream:

I was in my chemistry classroom, and my psychology teacher was teaching us the theory of relativity. Then she said we were bad and we would have to go to school over christmas break, but it would be less work. The class was almost over, and everyone started packing up and talking to their friends. All i remember was that I heard the word dream, or imagined that i heard it, and I tried breathing through my nose and it worked!!! I immiediatly thought that I had to control myself to not wake up, and I took off flying! I flew for about 10 seconds, but suddenly i realized that I am a little horny , and I wanted to have some fun. I remember flying through walls of all the classrooms looking for a really hot girl, and then i found one. I jumped on top of her, and I froze the time . I then tried taking her clothes off, realizng that her intimate parts were made of metal and she was a robot?? I unfroze the time i was a little frustrated at that point lol. Suddenly the dream was starting to fade, and I forgot all the methods of stabilizing it, so i just rubbed my hands together really fast and it worked! For the next couple of minutes I just walked around the school, never even occuring to me taht I could just go outside and do some fun stuff like fly...

Anyways that was my first lucid dream. I do have some questions though like, how can I find my dream guide? And also is it common to have a vivid, realistic, and almost total control in your first lucid dream?