Don't have sex with your ex in your dreams. Just summon another girl, that's just as good looking. |
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it started were i was on a bus this being about midway though the dream and i had just gotten away from the 28 days later sinario and then i said to myself hang on would i be on the bus driving past stepping hill hospital with my ex on the bus. A few seconds later there it was i was lucid. I walked down to my ex and i thought to myself i might as well try it and i started speaking to her and then we got kissing and so on and then when i tried to you no go for it she pushed me away and said not even in your dreams which is what she said to me when i tried it in the relationship lol ( really hated her and she cheated on me) |
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Last edited by jankai; 05-31-2007 at 12:36 PM.
Don't have sex with your ex in your dreams. Just summon another girl, that's just as good looking. |
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I agree completely with Marvo. Buttttttt in the spirit of answering the question. I'm pretty sure if you worked at it you'd be able to follow through wiht your ex. It would be harder, since you are subconciously anticipating the denial. Its your dream, anything is possible, your subconcious also tells you that gravity should hold you down to the ground, you shouldnt' be able to fly. Yet plenty of people do this because they know others have and it's just a dream. It's about getting over that expectation and realizing it's your own dream. |
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"What if you slept, and what if in your sleep you dreamed, and what if in your dream you went to heaven and there you plucked a strange and beautiful flower, and what if when you awoke you had the flower in your hand? Ah, what then?" Samuel Taylor Coleridge
i understand what ur saying but the problem is av bin LDing for nearly 10 years now and i have never had this problem before |
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Well, stop thinking about it. Wondering about it, is not a good step, if you want to forget about it and solve the problem. |
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Yeah, don't think about it because if you do, you'll end up increasing the chances of thise happening in your dreams again. When you get lucid, a dreams main goal is to make you lose your focus so it can have control again and do whatever it wants [at least, that's how I see it] so that could have been its way of throwing you off guard. |
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In the end think of it like having sex with yourself because it is you're dream just that you're imagining another person to simulate sex so you can help with you're wants and needs . |
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well i have just thought of what the problem is after reading about what is just being put. |
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This is quite unusual jankai. Usually, DCs clamour for sex with LDers. To find one who refuses is not common, but I don't know what to make of it. |
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When I meet women in my dreams, they're usually ugly and fat. I'd rather summon some sweet looking girl. |
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This doesn't exactly apply to this specific situation but rather to the general concept; |
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Dear Marvo, |
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Oh haha, no no, it's not like they are all fat and ugly. There are many nice ones aswell. It's just in my lucids, when I'm like "Shit, I'm gonna get a girl and have fun with her" the only girls I find, are ugly/oldies/fat, and completely unsexy. |
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Last edited by Marvo; 06-04-2007 at 12:58 PM.
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Yep, basically. And they don't have to be the same people either, you can have a different looking Anima every night. In fact, I am sure that it would be more to your subconscious' advantage to be able to present these women as many and varied so you could see your femine aspect from many angles. |
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