First LD - verbal commands and attempted sex :

**DuB** · 10-14-2005 10:25 PM

I've had a few LD's before, but I had my first since discovering this site last night. I'm pretty excited about it and just kind of wanted people to read it and tell me what they thought about it. It can be found in my lucid dream journal. Should I have done things differently, approached the dream differently? How does it compare with other people's first LD's? The main thing I'm looking for is tips and advice... or maybe even a little interpretation

Thanks.

**AlternateReality** · 10-15-2005 12:42 AM

I start to get excited, but I remember reading about how many people who are new to lucid dreaming lose lucidity shortly after gaining it because they get too excited and caught up in the dream[/b]

Lol in my first LD i almost expected to wake up from excitement so when it happened I thought i was losing the dream and woke up, but i was still dreaming.

**luciddream** · 04-20-2008 01:08 AM

This is a very interesting dream... perhaps you could give me some advice, please. I can't ever seem to have sex in a dream without waking up! I've attempted only a few times and all of those times I've woken up after experiencing minimum pleasure! Please help. Do you have some trick that you use to stay asleep? How do you do it?

Thanks in advance.

**McLoone** · 04-21-2008 12:06 AM

Originally Posted by luciddream

This is a very interesting dream... perhaps you could give me some advice, please. I can't ever seem to have sex in a dream without waking up! I've attempted only a few times and all of those times I've woken up after experiencing minimum pleasure! Please help. Do you have some trick that you use to stay asleep? How do you do it?

Thanks in advance.

Hey LucidDream, I had this problem for a bit aswell, what you have to do is once you've realsied your dreaming, don't jump straight for a women, you'll get too excited, make sure you know where you are and whats going on. Then you can approach a female, what works with me is say something like:

'So when are we having sex?'

rather than just grabbing her. The DC(dream Character) will then usually say(thanks to your suggestion)something like:

'Whenever'

Try that and hit me back bro, remember, don't get too excited

Good Luck !

**luciddream** · 04-21-2008 02:09 AM

Originally Posted by McLoone

Hey LucidDream, I had this problem for a bit aswell, what you have to do is once you've realsied your dreaming, don't jump straight for a women, you'll get too excited, make sure you know where you are and whats going on. Then you can approach a female, what works with me is say something like:

'So when are we having sex?'

rather than just grabbing her. The DC(dream Character) will then usually say(thanks to your suggestion)something like:

'Whenever'

Try that and hit me back bro, remember, don't get too excited

Good Luck !

Wow, thank you! I can't wait to try this!