Hey guys, just a short post about a phenomenon that has happened in my last 2 LD's

Both of them were DILD's and incredibly short. In my first one i was talking to my deceased granda (alive in the dream) . I then realised that it was a dream and shouted "He's dead in real life. Im dreaming!" I dont know whther it was recall or the excitement buti believe i lost lucidity straight after becoming lucid.

another one was a sex-oriented dream where i was in a room with hot girls and having sex. i went over to another one after i had finished with one (sorry for a lack of a better word "finished". Dont worry, females are not a commodity to me ) and saw she had a penis (LMAO) i then thought that...shouldnt..be..there. then i became lucid and started thinking about Schemas (i had been reading LaBerge's book on LD'ing befoer bed and in particular about dream schemas) and i realised that this was obviously the incorrect schema that i would normally use. but GAIN i lost lucidity again!!

incredibly annoying... any thoughts?