Very annoying, commonly themed dreams

[evo315]

I keep having dreams where i am being yelled at for various reasons. I absolutely hate being lectured or yelled at by people and i keep having these annoying reoccurring dreams. For example, i'll break something on accident and someone goes ape shit on me. Also dreams where im in an environment with a father and daughter minding my own business. Then father says to me "dont look at my daughter, dont think about my daughter, are you thinking about my daughter? You better not be." I'm not even talking to any girls at the moment and im not a father myself. What is my subconscious trying to tell me? What does this even mean?

[CharlesD]

Things we don't like tend to pop up on occasion. I'm pretty uptight about personal privacy. It bugs me in real life if my wife is looking for something and is opening the drawers on my desk, even though there's nothing hidden in there. So the other night I had a dream where we were driving separate vehicles, I was in my Sprinter van and she was in the car. I used to drive that Sprinter van over the road hauling expedited freight, have since sold it, but I still have dreams where I will be driving it. Anyway, we were at a rest area and I was over talking to my wife at the car when I turn around and a cop had the side door open on my van and is just going through all my stuff. He was saying that they were looking for a similar vehicle and mine looked suspicious. I went over and told him rather forcefully that he had no right to just break into my locked van and search it without some kind of warrant, so I shut the door, locked it, and went back to talk to my wife. Then I heard a noise and turned back around to see him with the door open and going through everything again. I went ballistic on him and shut the van again and he finally left. Then I went back to the car and my wife was sitting there going through the contents of my wallet. She had everything scattered all over. I think this goes back to childhood and not being able to keep my younger brother out of my room, but I've just had this strong belief in personal privacy. I won't go through any of my wife's stuff without asking first, but to her if I get uptight about her going through my things it must be because I'm trying to hide something. That comes up quite a bit in dreams as well and I will be frustrated because I won't be able to do anything about it. I wish I would become lucid more often during those dreams so I could just calm down a bit.