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I've heard several opinions on this. A Christian friend from high school simply describes love as a choice. Another gal from my school says it's not a choice, but more of a spontaneous appreciation or feeling. I understand both sides. Love as a choice is bold, and persistent and overcoming, but at the risk of sounding cold and artificial. Love as the appreciation/feeling is more genuine and honest, but at the risk of being unstable. Or could love be both? |
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naturals are what we call people who did all the right things accidentally
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I think it's a 'choice' when you are attracted to someone, and you make that conscious decision to say hello, introduce yourself and begin to get to know each other... |
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'all of the moments that already passed/
try to go back and make them last.'
I don't think you can decide who you will or will not fall in love with. The choice however, lies with what you are going to do with that feeling. |
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"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
~Buddha
You have good points there, Liz. It's somewhat the same that I think. |
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Don't think about those damn kangaroos.
I heard somewhere that love at first sight has been scientifically proven. Something to do with a chemical that gets released in the brain. |
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i think love is both choice and non choice, the subconscounce might love someone but the conscounce might not decide to. choice love and nonchoice love are different and are not the same kind of love |
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All intelligent creatures Dream
LD's 12 And counting..
I do not wish to hear about the moon from someone who has not been there.
Mark Twain
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Don't think about those damn kangaroos.
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There honestly is truth in the highest love proven when one man gives his life for another. But it's only love if it has feeling, and I'm frankly disappointed how a lot of churches don't emphasize feeling enough, unless I'm expecting too much. It could be the churches I went to...I didn't perceive anybody to really live that sort of life, demonstrating real love. Like, a lot of times, religions shoot down the fantastic phenomenon of falling in love, as arbitrary, useless, and childish. |
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naturals are what we call people who did all the right things accidentally
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