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I imagine that porn made people think that women can easily have multiple orgasms. I don't know if this is true. Granted, I've never taken a poll, nor do I plan to. I know my s/o can't do it. As soon as she orgasms, she'll get sore or raw if she tries to continue.Quote:
Originally Posted by littlezoe
Well i think it's a general thing that people say most girls can do it... I know others too that can't... but it always seems like the majority does. Not sure how true it is actually.Quote:
Originally Posted by Caenis
Afaik, it is true, doesn't mean all can, but I think most. I don't think the porn contributes either, coz 99% of the porn I watch the girl never orgasms.
Girls can have real long orgasms, like a minute or two :cheeky:
lol I don't think so.
The physical reactions (shaking and convultions and stuff) can last for a long time, maybe even a couple minutes if physical stimulation persists, but the actual 'good feeling' part of the orgasm where chemicals from heaven are released only lasts for a few seconds. At least in my experience. (When did I become so willing to discuss this type of thing on DV? lol)
And I might as well contribute to the other topic too. I used to never be able to get multiple orgasms, but for the last few years I've been able to. The first one is always the strongest though, and by the third it's so weak that there's pretty much no point to trying. I don't know how it works chemically, but it seems like there's a certain amount of good-feeling chemicals that are ready to be released, so if there's one big orgasm at first, I won't be able to get any others, and then my arousal completely vanishes so continuing to try is annoying or boring. But if it's smaller, I'll be able to work it up again in a couple minutes. Maybe some women are like me when i was younger, the orgasm is always so huge and all the chemicals or whatever are released at once. Perhaps when someone does it a lot, they become more capable of getting multiple ones.
I've never heard of men being able to orgasm without cumming. That's kind of interesting.
I agree with that. Same for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dianeva
I think some people just want to make it out to be something much bigger :P
I've extended my orgasms before....overwhelming, prolonged pleasure becomes 'painful'. Don't you think?
No?
That's the general idea. It's the same reason that ecstasy loses it's 'magic' very quickly with frequent doses that are too close together. Your brain only has so many of those chemicals to release stored up, and the closer together those releases get the fewer it'll have to work with. In addition, bursts of euphoria in quick succession rapidly builds up short-term desensitization of your receptors. That's why the first is always best, as long as it actually is good.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dianeva
Yeah I thought it was based on the latter, depreciating returns.
Strange. It makes me have involuntary spasms and muscle cramp in my thighs and lower back. Though I do tease myself to the point of orgasm about 15 times before letting it happen....Quote:
Originally Posted by Omnis Dei
But is there still pleasure during the spasms and muscle cramps? I'd imagine if the actual pleasure feeling persisted, it couldn't feel bad since 'pleasure' is by definition a good feeling.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wolfwood
I have to stop pleasuring myself to alleviate the muscle cramp....so a competition arises between pain and pleasure. Plus, I become over-sensitized.... and so that itself is 'painful' (not in a traditional sense, just uncomfortable). Think just after orgasm how sensitive your parts are if touched. That's the 'pain' I refer to, if persistently stimulated.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dianeva
I'm no normal masturbator LoL.
Let's just say I've been to my urologist for "squirting a little blood". Let's just say, it's more common than you'd think.
So it's more like over stimulation. I get that if I try to finish too quickly. I could easily get it all over with in about 20 seconds if it weren't for that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wolfwood
If I'm bored, I would say 8. Not all at once, that's just crazy, like every other hour or half hour. Yeah. I can't believe I just said that.
*sigh*
Why is this conversation happening?
Everything will be okay. *hugs*
Hey this got moved to SB
But masturbating is srs bsnss :jester:
Because of this:
I can't like this:Quote:
Originally Posted by DaveTheJoker
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Originally Posted by Raspberry
*likes*
I've already offered to riot against the no-like thingy of SB with pitchforks and torches, cause I'm hardcore like that...
But this thread is a pleasurable read and therefore I will not ruin that with my badass antics
Not entirely sure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dianeva
Well, I can have 1 minute orgasms ! If you train your vagina muscles you can, even when your alone.
It doesn't happen all the time but it does.
Train vagina muscles? o.OQuote:
Originally Posted by Chicken