okay, this was revolting!!!

[irishcream]

I'm wondering if my house is a turn on for some people... I was walking home last night, stinking headache, after having done a fourteen hour day...It was approximately nine thirty pm. A car pulled up outside my house...'oh' i thought 'he's going to wind down the window, and ask me for directions' Which i hate, cos i'm crap at that. Anyway, i walk on a bit nearer, so that i'm actually next to the car. I happen to glance over. And he's not even thinking about asking for directions...he's 'keeping himself busy' if you like!! I tell you, i did an RC right there and then!! i couldn't believe my eyes, i have never been so horrified or revolted in my entire life! so i turned away, and went to post my letters. In the meantime he pulled off. has anyone else had the unfortunate bad luck to witness something like this???

[Mystical_Journey]

Originally posted by irishcream I'm wondering if my house is a turn on for some people... I was walking home last night, stinking headache, after having done a fourteen hour day...It was approximately nine thirty pm. A car pulled up outside my house...'oh' i thought 'he's going to wind down the window, and ask me for directions' Which i hate, cos i'm crap at that. Anyway, i walk on a bit nearer, so that i'm actually next to the car. I happen to glance over. And he's not even thinking about asking for directions...he's 'keeping himself busy' if you like!! I tell you, i did an RC right there and then!! i couldn't believe my eyes, i have never been so horrified or revolted in my entire life! so i turned away, and went to post my letters. In the meantime he pulled off. has anyone else had the unfortunate bad luck to witness something like this??? Thankfully I’ve never experienced something of this magnitude but being a man it doesn’t happen to us very often, i would trash his car and set him on fire (lol). I’ve said this before, women must have to put up with a lots of shit we dont even realise. You have to be careful walking around on your own at night in today’s world ; so many repressed freaks and weirdoes lurking in the shadows around every corner. I work nights so walking to work at about 11:30pm i get to see lots of shit i would rather block from my mind (pimps, drug dealers, prostitutes, perverts and drunken fools). You should get yourself one of those panic alarms when you walk around late at night or one of those sprays so you can spray them full of that pesticide stuff (you can get from the police i think). Dont forget repeatedly kicking him in his offending area You have to be REALLY careful if you see him again, he could be one of those stalker type of people.... If this happened to me I would try to write down his licence plate and phone the police, report his ass to the authority. That experience sounds disgusting, there are some really strange people on this planet.

[irishcream]

well, i don't think i'll be seeing him again, i'm sure this was a one off...no pun intended! I didn't think about reporting him to the police, course, i should have done, it's like that whole George Michael thing... A lewd act in a public place.... I don't think he was doing it to attract me personally, i didn't recognise the car, or the person in it, just that it was a man, and he was doing what he was doing...thank god it was no one i knew! #lets go outside...# ha ha... Looking back on it now, it's rather funny, actually. I concluded he must have been reallydesperate. i know men do it...hey, so do women... But hell, not in public, eh? I mean, i know what it feels like to be 'desperate' if you like, but there's a time and a place... ugh.. and it's not something i'd want to see a man do...even if i was a couple with him, that kind of thing would not do it for me at all...tantamount to stroking his ego... ah hell, this innuendo... I think i need to get off this thread...ahem.

[Clairity]

Originally posted by irishcream well, i don't think i'll be seeing him again, i'm sure this was a one off...no pun intended! All the same please keep your eyes open from now on when you're out alone at night.. I agree with Mystical_Journey, he could possibly be dangerous (you just never know). Luckily, I've yet to encounter a man who needed to "express" himself like that in public! I think If I did.. probably the worst thing I could do to him would be to simply point.. and laugh! (NOTE: laughing at perverts should only be done from a safe distance!)

[irishcream]

i think at the time i was too horrified to laugh...i just stood there with my mouth open, like a gold fish!! Hmmm...you may be right though...and i do keep my eyes peeled when i walk home at night.

[mistikal]

Something happened to me many years ago in "daylight". I was walking to the shop with my friends (less than 800 meters), we were teenagers back then. We saw this man run past us, then he came back again in front of us, a fair way ahead at the front of a unit block behind the mailboxes at the front. His running around and demeanour seemed odd to me. I pointed it out to my friends, as we walked closer, he appeared to be doing something. He'd pulled down his shorts and underpants and walked right passed us having a good old time with himself. You'd never have seen girls run so fast. When we got to the shop, we were scared about getting home, not to mention whether we should tell our parents for fear of them not letting us out anymore. We were scared that he would follow us and find out where we lived etc. Later we walked home a different way. In the end we did tell out parents, as it turned out we weren't the only ones he had exposed himself to, because it was reported in the local paper. If you are unable to avoid walking home late at night by yourself, I'd recommend some self defence lessons. Also take different routes or occasionally someone to accompany you.

[irishcream]

glad i'm not the only one that's had a similar experience then!! The route i take home is always really well lit, i go through the center of town, and you never see me take a short cut. although a friend of mine is forever going on about how i shouldn't walk home in the dark... i usually get a lift say three quarters of the way home, and walk the rest, depending on who's working with me, and if they are going my way.