Thread: Need Help

okay well i've been in a really iffy mood for the past while and i think this forum would be able 2 help me out seeing as how there seem 2 be alot of educated ppl here lol

basically my question is.. should i break up with my girlfriend

by break up i mean NEVER go back 2 her again

here are some of her cons

-she always hangs out with her ex whom she said she "loves" because she was her first love and he still has a piece of her heart.. thing is her ex is dealing with problems (life problems) and considers her his best friend

- she seems to be ignorant of how i feel about the relationship

- she's always busy and seems 2 have no time

- very emotional and easily angered

- is well experienced in sex (im 17 i havent gone ALL the way cuz i refused (no i'm not gay ) but shes had sex countless amounts of time she also had it with her ex)

- gets mad at me if i do something she doesnt like but when she does the exact same thing yells at me saying i'm out of line.

- ignores important questions

now her pros................

- shes extremely nice and caring a nurturer in a way

- she very apologetic.... after time

- fun to just be around

- clingy (i like that)

- has the intent of a serious relationship but not now within the future

reasons why i am reluctant to break up with her....

- SHE WORKS WITH ME :'(:'(
- shes been in extremely shitty relationships and she makes it seem like her life is falling apart
- she says shes deperately searching for "the one"

so someone please help me out i think the main reason i cant break up with her is cuz she works with me and it'd be awkward and would give a bad impression on my other co-workers but ya need some guidance

oh btw i have the feeling that if i wait i can learn 2 accept her, that and my last relationship was worse so i'm kinda scared that i'm burdened with either bad luck or i'm just being really really picky