ahh my guy friend kissed me!!

[Je33ica]

EDIT: gosh i sounded like such a junior higher... basically my guy friend and i kissed

[Taosaur]

lol, ok, I'm having the classic guy response to give advice, but still I want to say, don't cut him off. Try to understand your situation together, however fleeting it may be, and this way you will probably learn the most from it. warning: taking relationship advice from me is like taking flying advice from a dolphin.

[Turkeh]

Gah give the guy some respect it takes a hell of alot for somone to come out and say that they like you if there not sure how you feel. Keep in contact I say :-)

[Xisdence]

The guy has probally been wanting to build up the courage for that for,,,probally months. Go with the flow

[dougdrums]

yeah, no kidding, go with the guy!

[nightowl]

aww, how cute but yeah stay with the dude and see how it goes out. Love isnt something you stumble upon everyday

[Kaniaz]

Unless you pay for it.

[Umbrasquall]

Originally posted by Kaniaz Unless you pay for it. hahahahaha

[nightowl]

you know in my first comment i was tempted to say something about whores, but I decided not to

[Je33ica]

hmm k.. anyways thanks a lot guys for the advice... all you guys are soo right... i just need time to think this over and talk to my friends about it ill let you know how things go

[Xisdence]

The reason i think you should go with it, is because im in that guys situation, except i don;t have the balls to kiss this girl or let her know how i feel. Im scared it will either screw up the friendship, or she won't like me anymore. Women everywhere, let us have you, hehe im doing us guys a favour

[dougdrums]

What he said.

[Truthbearer]

Originally posted by Xisdence The reason i think you should go with it, is because im in that guys situation, except i don;t have the balls to kiss this girl or let her know how i feel. Im scared it will either screw up the friendship, or she won't like me anymore. Ditto....doesn't that just suck so much you want to die??? Except I can't say I love her, cause I dare not say I know what love is... But fear not, the voices in my head keep me company through all this shit...

[Je33ica]

hmm well things are weird between us, we aren't offical but we haven't called it off im too confused to talk about it

[Truthbearer]

well, just think of it the way I do: If it was easy, you probably wouldn't appreciate it as much... but then again I am not the expert to be giving out advice...

[dougdrums]

Holy crap go with him!!! Any way I can paypal him the cost of a beer or equivalent?

[Je33ica]

EDIT: more junior highish talk, basically he came over and kissed me again

[MSG]

Well maybe you should ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel so you dont get wrong impressions of each other... lemme just tell you one thing: THat man's got balls! Its really hard to do something like that... especially if you are just friends in the start. have fun

[dougdrums]

Maybe you should just pile into him. That makes it easier.

[MSG]

Originally posted by dougdrums Maybe you should just pile into him. That makes it easier. more like... him into her

[CT]

Hahaha. Oh the 13 year old humor.

[Kaniaz]

I can safely say as an fully qualified 13 year old myself, p00p's joke would fail to bring so much as an grin from the most sex crazed youth of my age, and would probably only warrant a punch in the teeth and a quick head bashing for being so lame. Or perhaps two head bashings.

[Je33ica]

haha... reminds me of junior high... anyways... it looks like he's not moving until the end of the school year, the date keeps changing and it's frustrating me!! , he came over to my house yesterday to put WIN XP on the comp in my room (since it kept freezing, so I usually used the comp in the office with Xp already)... so now i have a working comp in my room that doesn't freeze we watched an illegal copy of napolean dynamite, and all the hours he was there it was like we were back to the normal days: when we were just friends, and i actually had a better time yesterday then the other nights of making out and couple stuff so im confused, i think ill just be friends with him, because it was better that way... (ill probably end up editing this post to a short one sentence reply- like the other posts lol- but w/e for now i just need to get it all out!)

[Truthbearer]

Originally posted by Je33ica haha... reminds me of junior high... anyways... it looks like he's not moving until the end of the school year, the date keeps changing and it's frustrating me!! , he came over to my house yesterday to put WIN XP on the comp in my room (since it kept freezing, so I usually used the comp in the office with Xp already)... so now i have a working comp in my room that doesn't freeze we watched an illegal copy of napolean dynamite, and all the hours he was there it was like we were back to the normal days: when we were just friends, and i actually had a better time yesterday then the other nights of making out and couple stuff so im confused, i think ill just be friends with him, because it was better that way... (ill probably end up editing this post to a short one sentence reply- like the other posts lol- but w/e for now i just need to get it all out!) Not if I quote you first! Anyway, I admire that guy for at least trying, even if it doesn't work out. At least you now know how things are and nobody has to worry about what could have been. Sometimes things just aren't meant to be, I guess. Maybe you two really are better off as friends, but who knows....maybe with time it would feel natural to be with him as more than a friend. I guess you just have to let it play out... ...or maybe I'm just rambling

[MSG]

Originally posted by CT Hahaha. Oh the 13 year old humor. the cool thing about forums is you can act like a 13 year old and people automatically assume you are one. Totally awesome. Nobody on this website has seen my face or had a voice conversation with me, so how can you automatically assume im a 13 year old boy? i might be some obis 56 year old woman. Owell wtf nobody cares about me. Waa.