Please help me interpret these dreams :)

**Meravigliosa89** · 08-06-2015 10:58 PM

Hi Everyone,

I would like to ask you to please help me interpret the below dreams that I have had in two consecutive nights.

Many many many thanks for sharing your thoughts on the below! xx :heartpump:
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Dream 1

I am sitting at one of the ends of a longer dining table, at the other end sits my ex-boyfriend. We are holding a conversation and I am noting to myself mentally that he is being genuinely nice. I feel comfortable and happy and somehow expectant. I see that he is typing something on his new handphone for a second, I am recalling in the dream that last time we met he said he would buy a really good one once he established his law firm, which he did in prior months. I am walking up to him and sitting on his lap, throwing my arms around his neck and he holds me around my waist. We are so calm and I feel bliss. I can see the screen of his phone: he checked out a travel agency's page, "tgtravel.com". I kiss him and everything is perfect...but the scene changes...

It feels like we are in a classroom at school surrounded by people but I can hear them murmuring only. My ex, "B" has a small doll with him. "B" walks to a PC with the excuse of having to check out this travel page (I guess he said he would be travelling soon), I can see the screen of the PC again, "tgtravel.com"... I strike a conversation with the doll, and on a random comment, she says " I do not think that Justin would like this". Then I correct her, as my ex is called "B", but she insists on the name "Justin"....

..Then I look up and see my old friend from high school, Richard. I give him a hug but at first I can feel his reluctance to hug back, and when he does, I note to myself how different it is from hugging "B", my ex-boyfriend just minutes ago.... the scene changes...

...and I am wearing shorts and running alone, and I am conscious of the fact that it is part of my exercise regime.

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Some facts about me that may be of help for the interpretation

I have known my ex, through a mutual friend, "B" for two years now and we have been dating on and off. I broke up with him in January over a jealous fit. Even though B is not courting me with words, and he is a little rough, he is fond of me, I know that.
When together, I dated several other boys simultaneously, as I am very indecisive. I am very jealous of B and suspected that B was still in love with a previous partner of his, which he denied. B is also very jealous and possessive with me. Even though B is a serious boy, he still has dreams about travelling, which I dread because I feel as if I do not make him happy, he does not love me.

Justin is a boy I dated a few times after I broke up with B, and have been considering to try something serious with him.

My friend from high school, Richard has been in love with me back then and ever since we graduated, he distanced himself from me. He also moved countries and we rarely speak or meet.

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Dream 2

I am standing in front of a window and a heater. My colleague, "X", is approaching me and asks if I have been in love before. I answer him that I had been, once. He seems sad and says "I am too late". I assure him that it was only puppy love and he takes my right hand (probably to kiss it?) but the next thing I realise is that he has bit my hand in two places and the scars are bleeding. I fret and he says "My, my, if it bleeds like this from this bite then what would happen if we did other things"?

The next scene is on a couch and he is behind me, hugging me and calls me his little kitten.

..Then suddenly I am conversing with my mother and recite what has happened with "X". She reprimands me "What does he mean by 'what would happen if we did other things?". I cant answer properly.

Some facts...

X is some 20 years older than I am and is my rough & tough supervisor. He is not liked by most people but I admire his knowledge tremendously and respect him. I also started to date my ex-boyfriend, "B", because I thought he resembled "X" in personality. "X" and I have a very formal relationship but I am sure of his sympathy towards me.

I have a strong and great relationship with my mother. She supports me in every possible way but she is also controlling, in a sense. I am an only child, still living at home

**dolphin** · 08-06-2015 11:56 PM

Dream 1-The dream suggests you are indecisive about who you want to be with and need to make a decision quickly.

Dream 2-The dream suggests you need to clear your mind and allow yourself to heal emotionally.

**Raen** · 08-09-2015 03:33 PM

In the first dream you mention that you and "B" are seated at opposite ends of a long dining table. This is a physical separation between you and your former partner which could represent your actual separation in real life and the distance that you feel has grown between you. This is only natural after the end of a relationship and to be expected. He comes across as pleasant in conversation and for some reason that seems worthy of note, so perhaps in waking life he was never so great at communicating with you and left something to be desired. It might be worth trying to recall what the conversation was about so you can understand this better. You notice his new handphone which is representative of his recent success. The sudden intimacy is probably down to the fact that you miss being with him physically and you feel "bliss" as he holds you so this is clearly something that you think is meant to be.

I'm not really certain on what the doll represents, but perhaps one of his previous partners that you thought he was still in love with? You mention that "B" is possessive and this doll could just be a symbolic representation of his possessiveness over a former lover. The fact that she calls him by the wrong name could just be that you think she knows him in a way that you don't, or visa versa, as the name is linked strongly to a person's identity. Although having just read that extra information, you're considering becoming serious with Justin, so maybe you fear that "B" is going to become somebody else's Justin who they are going to get serious with and you are going to lose him.

Richard was formerly in love with you and, presumably, for his own sake, he has distanced himself from you because he didn't feel that attraction reciprocated. That's why he was reluctant to hug you and why it felt different from "B"'s hug, you know he knows you're not serious about him and so he can no longer love you in that way and you seem to understand that on some level. I'm not really certain on the running part, maybe you feel like you're not good enough for B and this is a self improvement project for you.

In the second dream, X seems to show an interest in you but instead of acting how you expect, he acts in a way that hurts you in a physical sense. Maybe you're considering a relationship with X in the back of your mind despite how unlikely it might seem to you because of the age gap, but you're worried he will cause you harm emotionally. This could be because of the similarities between X and B and B has already hurt you in the past. Your mother may not approve of such a relationship because of the age gap which might be why she is reprimanding you, and the reason she appears to you is precisely because you have a strong supportive relationship with her and you think she knows what's best for you even if sometimes that comes across as controlling.

To conclude, I would say that you obviously miss B and are confused about whether you should move on or whether you should seek him out again. Nobody will be able to tell you what the right answer is, but I think you are still in love with B. You might not feel that this represents you in any way, but this is just my take on your dreams. You know yourself better than anybody on this forum does so if you disagree with anything I've written then you're probably right

I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide to do and I hope this has been of a little help to you.