My Dream

[ITLSTL]

First off, im 20 years old, i work at a grocery store, i try to workout alot, i have no car and ive spent most of my life staying at home playing video games and watching movies, im actually somewhat fit, and im very shy around most girls and im also a bit lonely... this was my dream I was at the end of a corridor sitting in a chair kind of in a corner on my left was a vertical hallway and in front of me was a barricade sort of thing, the kind of thing they use in movie theaters to keep people in lines, and then a horizontal hallway,in a hospital looking place very plain with bright good lighting, and then this girl came around the corner she had a pretty face short blonde hair that kind of curled and nice eyebrows she was with another girl who had long brown hair but i didnt really pay attention to her and she (the blonde) raised her eyebrows at me, and kinda smiled(as i remember)thinking her to be quite pretty i raised mine and then got up and started talking to her, i cant remember what we talked about but she said her name was lois sadd(i think she spelled it louis though), i woke up and then began searching for a lois sadd on the internet and of course found no results, so i then began looking for people who looked like her, there were a few people who i had met who kinda looked like her, and she also bore a resemblance to actress AnnaSophia Robb, (which lead to a week and a half long crush on her), does this dream have meaning, could this girl be someone i meet in the future or is she just a figment of my loneliness, she only looked like she was only around 17 or so. it seemed like a love at first site type of deal. ive been attracted to 2 of the people i know who look like the dream girl, one of them was some what of a big crush but it only lasted about a week or 2 but i hadnt seen that girl or the other one in almost a year, Ive never been attracted to annasophia in the least bit until after i had seen her recent pictures after the dream... in the dream i didnt really feel anything until i saw her, in which then i felt loved maybe or complete, its kinda hard to explain... the barricade looked something like this, and i dont remember crossing it in the dream... i dont know what else to add...

[unclesirbob]

Yes the dream is pretty much related to feelings of sadness within yourself and the shyness you have towards girld. The barrier represents barriers in your own personality. ------------------------ Its amazing how good the TV reality show Big Brother is in understanding dreams. Occasionally contestants discuss their dreams. The cause of dreams is usually hidden in the events and feelings from the day before. The show itself highlights any pyschological changes within the contestants. They pick up on little changes in behavior and they interview the contestants on a daily basis. Dreams tend to symbolise new thoughts and feelings. They may link to some new thought being clarified within the dreamers mind. The whole days activity is crammed into a one hour show at night and so any changes in the contestants are neatly cut into sound bite size. The meaning of any one dream could even be traced back to one TV clip where a contestant actually says what is on their mind. They cannot hide from the cameras. The inner workings of their mind are on total view. Even the slightest smile or frown is picked up. Try this page which features Big Brother dreams going back several years. http://www.unclesirbobby.org.uk/dreambb5.php

[eyeglass7]

hey, unclesirbob's comment was pretty much correct. BUT there is something else; the barrier. i don't think this represents any personal limitation you have. remember that those sorts of barriers at cinemas don't keep people out or stop them, but they keep them in line until its their turn. so i think this dream is encouraging you that your turn is on the way. how does that sit with you? blessings,

[ITLSTL]

sounds good guys, but still do you think the blonde was just someone contructed out of pure imagination? i dont think ive ever dreamt of a fake being before, the only other thing is is i have no idea how old i was, if that makes a difference

[eyeglass7]

that may be the case. but there may be some other elements to think about. i think the dream may be advising you to perhaps avoid going for what would be your obvious choice of a girlfiend (blonde). maybe your happiness lies in someone who you don't immediatly find attractive on the outside (brown haired girl), and that going with others may make you "sadd"!! so, seek wisely my friend! how does that sit with you?

[Barefooted Student]

Love is an illusion, so are emotions. These types of dreams surface when we feel lonely, just as sexual dreams arise when we feel tension. Think nothing of it, and nothing it shall be.

[ITLSTL]

I dunno, i didnt think the dreams where that in depth, i think i kinda understand, the thing is im not that shallow i like pretty women, even women who might be rated a 6.5/10 as long as they have a good personality, but to be honest maybe the barrier could have represented limitations, i mean i am quite lonely but i dont have a car, ive kinda got a crappy job, and im not going to college yet so maybe it represents that im not ready and that getting into a relationship in general might make me sad because it wont last... as much as i hate to admit it, to be honest im kinda weird i think, if i find someone ugly i develop a hatred for them even if they are nice its just natural for me to dislike them...

[eyeglass7]

all the best to you

[myc81]

you like attractive people, no big deal. don't feel so down on yourself. at least you have a job. being 20, you are still so young and there is plenty of time for you to find that special someone. are you putting the barrier up for yourself? you keep telling about all the reasons against you and you keep talking about how you only go for pretty girls. you might need to just have more confidence in yourself and then i think you won't focus so much on what you don't have, but what you do have to offer. you might also be more open to look at beauty from the inside out. you say you're kind of isolated. once you get out and talk to girls and make an effort on getting to know them, you'll see its not all about what your eyes see.