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      Question Keep getting dreams about this guy I really like

      I have a secret crush on this guy at school for about 2 years now(Well, not really a secret because all of my friends know about it). Let's name him *Howard. I really don't think that he likes me back. But I keep getting dreams about people telling me that he likes me.

      In one dream, I asked his close friend (I don't know where I got the courage because I am a very shy girl) if Howard ever talks about me. He refused to answer my question. I kept asking him the same question but he pretended that he didn't hear me. In the end, he said Howard really likes you & he always talks about you. I asked really? And he said yes.

      Most of the time, I get this dream where everybody in my class told me that Howard likes me and they asked me to ask him out. One of Howard's friend pulled my hand, forcing me to sit next to Howard. Howard was smiling at me.

      Is there anything you could tell me from these dreams?

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      "Howard." Not the sexiest of nicknames...

      I don't think these dreams are going to give you any insight on the reality of the situation. Of course our crush is going to pop up in our dreams very often because sometimes that person is all we think about!

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      I think this dream is probably continuing to repeat itself because you still feel like you don't have closure on it, because you are shy. Maybe to get rid of this, you need to do something about this in reality, and possibly find out. If you are good friends, maybe you could ask him or suggest it somehow? It could help, but it's up to you. Good luck.

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      Dreams are constructed by feelings and thoughts you have inside you. While some people believe precognitive dreams, I think you shouldn't take it so literally. Again, I don't completelyshut down the possibility of those kind of dreams.

      But as you said you are shy, well that brings a obstacle to making contact Like Nitroanarchygirl said, dreams may be repetitive because solution is still open.

      My own advice is that go for it. It is always good to think what there is to lose? Nothing that cannot be replaced I pressume but there is lot of good things that can come out of it. Of course you can try to subtetly suggest and see for more reactíon, but well.. not all people show their feelings.. gotta just trust for your own insight.

      I have always gone and done things with confidence. But I'll hope you reach to some kind of solution
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      Thanks for the replies, guys!
      I guess you guys are right. Many kids at school has told me that he likes me but I'm not convinced even after my friends told me that they think he likes me back because they say it's obvious. I am not an easy believer when it comes to something like this. So, probably it's because I want to believe them, but I dont.....?? If you know what I mean.

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      It's probably like everyone else said that it's just because you think about him so much. But maybe you do need to ask him? Even if it's weird and awkward at least you'll know, right?
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