Thread: Tell me if i'm bi-sexual

What the crap? Let us know how that goes.

so, she her friend (which i was speakin to) text her and told her wat happened, and she replied saying ;dats ok' then she told her friend to tell me she said hi!

thats basically it so far, damn it her internet is broke, now wat do i do?? i hav no means of comminicating with her, except through her firend but if i asked questions, she suss me out. lol

Oh noes! That sucks, I hope things get better.

Don't give up. I've been in this position with my current interest. Just remember that if you're really in love, there shouldn't be anything you won't be able to accomplish. Besides killing Superman.

aww thanks, ill remember that piece of adice forever!!

yes, i wont give up. (pant)

Originally Posted by refresher 711

OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Could life get any more complicated for me!!!????? never guess wat has just happened!!!!!!!!!

turns out that the girl i like, well her internet is broken, so all of that time a friend of hers has been writing in place of her.

the girl i like doesnt even know i was speaking to her, damn..i feel soo stupid. her friend said she didnt want to tell me it wasnt her cause she thought i liked her. omfg!!! lol

her freind is going to text her now and tell her wat has happened!!! i wasnt even speakin to her all that fuckin time!!!!!!!!!!! ughhhh

LOL, I had to laugh about that. Thats happened to me so many times. I'd think i'm talking to one person, and it turns out it was another.

Anyway, one thing I would consider, since your starting to talk is, when you start sharing Interests, and talking about what you like to do and all that jazz, is don't mention Lucid Dreaming... and don't mention Dreamviews. If she's interested in it, or gets interested in it, It might be kinda awkward if she signs up on the site, and finds this thread and figures out who ya are lol.

OMG that would be scary and funny. lol
yip it was very funny, but i then afterwards I felt very empty.

Originally Posted by refresher 711

OMG that would be scary and funny. lol
yip it was very funny, but i then afterwards I felt very empty.

Don't worry too much about it. Just go have some fun and get to know the girl. Besides, it wouldn't be much different as to seeing someone's diary...

emm, thanks!

but i dont think you understand, you see i wasnt talking to her at all...so how am i meant to>? we only said hi, through her friend to eachother, but that was it. The only person im talking to that is nearest to talking to her is her best friend, and thats on bebo. lol Shes on her account cause the girl i like-----her internet is broke.

i dont think were meant to be (hopefully not)

Originally Posted by refresher 711

emm, thanks!

but i dont think you understand, you see i wasnt talking to her at all...so how am i meant to>? we only said hi, through her friend to eachother, but that was it. The only person im talking to that is nearest to talking to her is her best friend, and thats on bebo. lol Shes on her account cause the girl i like-----her internet is broke.

i dont think were meant to be (hopefully not)

Don't be negative with the whole fate crap! Think positive. It was just a little bad luck, nothing more. Are your chances ruined? I don't think so.

All this means you'll have to get to know her more face-to-face... and why should that be a problem?

Blue is right.

Whenever you get into a situation when the universe seems to be saying "it's not in the cards," it's often really the universe testing your mettle. It wants to see how hard you are willing to work.

If you really want it, it should make you push harder, not give up.

Oh please with that meant to be crap...it doesn't exist in my opinion you find your one special person, there is no like plan or fate, you make your own fate, she will like you as you like her, and everything will be wonderful!

Negativity breeds negative actions, remember that...be positive and smile and dream about your pretty dream girl!

Good luck honey, I wish you the best of things, I hope you two end up together

Don't get discouraged. If you really want this girl, pursue her. So what if you're talking to her best friend? Arrange a big group hanging out thing with you, her, the best friend, and a bunch of other people. Find a way to see her, and get her damn phone number. And so what if people find out that you're bi? Be fearless (or at least pretend you are), and go get her.

Very interesting read I hope it goes well for you

Originally Posted by refresher 711

This is really embarrasing..... but i have been having these strange feelings for another girl, i really dont want to be like this...the problem is... i dont know if this is normal, i feel really stupid, but i'm very confused at the moment, and it doesnt make it any better when this girl is staring at me every time i look at her...I just dont know what i should do??? Am i INSANE??? I would greatly appreciate your help on this matter, as i cant share my problem with family or friends.

you shouldn't be embarrased.

of course it's normal, what would make it not normal? because someone says it's not?

you shouldn't feel stupid about it.

is the girl heterosexual, bi-sexual, homosexual? find out, and if it's bi-sexual/homosexual then you could talk about your feelings to her.

why can't you share it with your family or friends? because they'd frown upon it? if your family does who cares, it's your life not theirs, as for your friends, if they can't accept you for whom you are they're not worthy of your friendship.

oh hey! i just thought i'd update this, sorry for bringing it back around cause i know its soo old. lol

yip so started back to school and things are getting better everyday, i mean, she has started to 'stalk' me, i don't know if thats a good thing but i like it. She hangs around very near to me at lunch and break time (like she would come to whatever toilet is closer to my class) lol, its weird, and she has started to say hello to me alot!! We smile at each other till the point we both turn red.how pathetic. Now all i have to do is somehow get into a proper conversation with her ...i will find a way. ugh i'm so obssessed.

Lol, don't feel bad about being obsessed or pathetic(), and I'm sure your first real convo with her will be fine, she's probably just as embarrassed about the awkwardness between you two as you are.

Anyway, good luck with working up the courage and I hope everything will work out fine.:3

Isn't everyone bisexual?

Originally Posted by refresher 711

oh hey! i just thought i'd update this, sorry for bringing it back around cause i know its soo old. lol

yip so started back to school and things are getting better everyday, i mean, she has started to 'stalk' me, i don't know if thats a good thing but i like it. She hangs around very near to me at lunch and break time (like she would come to whatever toilet is closer to my class) lol, its weird, and she has started to say hello to me alot!! We smile at each other till the point we both turn red.how pathetic. Now all i have to do is somehow get into a proper conversation with her ...i will find a way. ugh i'm so obssessed.

I forgot and can't be arsed to go through the whole thread again...

Do you know each other in any capacity? i.e. have you been introduced before?


And grasshoppa, I'm of the belief that yes, we are all inclined towards bisexuality, but societal norms and whatnot force people to hide and abandon their true nature.

Originally Posted by Elis D.

I forgot and can't be arsed to go through the whole thread again...

Do you know each other in any capacity? i.e. have you been introduced before?


And grasshoppa, I'm of the belief that yes, we are all inclined towards bisexuality, but societal norms and whatnot force people to hide and abandon their true nature.

I've heard that we are all naturally bi-sexual. I think what you say is probably true in regards to social norms. I think this idea is even accepted in Shamanism.

^ Can someone interpret please?

Thank you so much everyone, we've started to say hello to eachother all the time and she even came up to me and had a look at my sketch pad...i have to talk more soon hopefully. lol
and it is true us girls are hotter. lol

i will agree with mitzie. i went thorough the same thing when i was 15. i ended up not being bi. i mean i was really confused, and scared aabout wat my family would say, but then i realized it wasds just a phase... so you'll figure it out sooner or later.