Thread: Tell me about losing the big V.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Edit: Really though, I felt cheated.

rofl i get you. the thought of sex is better than the act.

These days I stick to milking Daisy myself.

i just laughed so hard.

When I had sex it was like...okay, this is going to take a while...okay...I am officially board out of my mind now...wow, I prefer listening to this music! Okay man, this is whole moving thing is making me tired, get you're self to orgasm already...

"you think we could just do this doggy style?"

damn, if only I had the balls to do this...

15 minutes later: finally force myself to do it and then end up feeling really bad about it the whole next week, and have difficulty sleeping in my own bed which smells like the girl who I fucked the shit out of.

Originally Posted by lysergic

i know this thread has probably been made before. sorry grod because i have a feeling you'll post a link to one of the other threads.

so i recently lost my virginity... it was great and all.

and i didn't expect it to be what i expected it to be and it wasn't...
sort of an oxy moron but i hope it makes sense.

anyway... now i just feel lost as hell. i'm not really confused or anything. i had sex, and i want to again. etc. but it's just like... what does this mean?

does it mean anything?

am i thinking too much?
am i crossing lines lines lines lines lines
am i losing touch?

i feel so fucking close to this girl now. i like the feeling of "nothing left to hide"
but i'm a naturally reserved person so it's scary.
i guess i want to know, what did YOU feel like afterwards?

Nope I've just done a run-through of every thread here and it appears that this is no duplicate. Now, it may be that a few threads have been deleted or sent to the moderator forum. I will be investigating those later, as well as any PM conversation that deals with the subject.

Be on your guard. The worst is yet to come.

Originally Posted by lysergic

i know this thread has probably been made before. sorry grod because i have a feeling you'll post a link to one of the other threads.

so i recently lost my virginity... it was great and all.

and i didn't expect it to be what i expected it to be and it wasn't...
sort of an oxy moron but i hope it makes sense.

anyway... now i just feel lost as hell. i'm not really confused or anything. i had sex, and i want to again. etc. but it's just like... what does this mean?

does it mean anything?

am i thinking too much?
am i crossing lines lines lines lines lines
am i losing touch?

i feel so fucking close to this girl now. i like the feeling of "nothing left to hide"
but i'm a naturally reserved person so it's scary.
i guess i want to know, what did YOU feel like afterwards?

Most people feel just as you do now. Most people feel "in love" or feel as if they have a strong emotional connection to their first merely because well...it was their first. You can have sex with 1,000 women and not remember number 647, but you'll always remember your first. Try not to think too much about "When am I going to get into her pants next" and just focus on having fun with her or whatever you were doing before you guys had sex.

Edit: Also, don't slip up and put it in her pooper...you'll leave with a hand print across your face and she won't speak to you for weeks because she thinks you intentionally meant to do it and while you might have, she'll be overreacting and going off on a tangent about she's confused about where this relationship is going or if there's a future for us and maybe we're not the one's for each other like we previously thought. Then her brother will be calling you threatening you because she says your broke her heart and now he's going to break your face so you get a gym membership and pump more iron so you'll be ready if such a thing does happen then one day you drive to your house and you see his car parked outside and he gets out and you guys slug it out right in the front yard. You walk away with a bloody lip and a bruised and slightly swollen eye and well...you get the point.

Originally Posted by Jeff777

Most people feel just as you do now. Most people feel "in love" or feel as if they have a strong emotional connection to their first merely because well...it was their first. You can have sex with 1,000 women and not remember number 647, but you'll always remember your first. Try not to think too much about "When am I going to get into her pants next" and just focus on having fun with her or whatever you were doing before you guys had sex.

Edit: Also, don't slip up and put it in her pooper...you'll leave with a hand print across your face and she won't speak to you for weeks because she thinks you intentionally meant to do it and while you might have, she'll be overreacting and going off on a tangent about she's confused about where this relationship is going or if there's a future for us and maybe we're not the one's for each other like we previously thought. Then her brother will be calling you threatening you because she says your broke her heart and now he's going to break your face so you get a gym membership and pump more iron so you'll be ready if such a thing does happen then one day you drive to your house and you see his car parked outside and he gets out and you guys slug it out right in the front yard. You walk away with a bloody lip and a bruised and slightly swollen eye and well...you get the point.

I take it this has happened to you?

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I take it this has happened to you?

definitely sounded like he was reliving something there.

but i catch your point jeff.

mm, Im sorry to say I didnt feel the same way as you after my first time. After my first time with my (still current) gf I looked at her after we were finished and she just had this look on her face that made her seem like she was glowing. I felt really happy too, and it never really over took our relationship...though since then we did it more often obviously. I guess the reason why it was like this is because neither one of us thought about it too much. We both wanted to do it, we both enjoyed it...and it just became another part of our relationship that we enjoy.

I guess what I am trying to say is you may be thinking too much. Let it be, and it will naturally mold well in to your relationship. Definitely dont feel like your relationship should change drastically because of it, let it be another part of your relationship instead.

I agree, don't think about it too much.

Just keep an open mind and see where the experiences take you.
You will learn and improve naturally on the way. Nothing scary

And talk openly about things.