I have to try that induction tape more. It hasnt worked that well with me... some of the problem was related to the volum... woke up in the middle of the night with a manvoice shouting into my ear YOU ARE DREAMING!! *WOOSH WOOSH*

Did you get emotional, angry at those that tried to burn down you house?
Now here is the deal.. next time... you stay utterly calm and loving... try to make the dreamscenario stable... walk towards them like you would hug and forgive them.... THEN when you are in arms reach hit them with full force of everything you can imagine... cause then you atleast can hold onto one of them while you are fading out... maybe you will drag him with you..... or you could just stay calm and do something else