I don't quite understand what you are saying, what do you expect to change once you realize you're dreaming? That's great that you've had a couple lucid dreams already, congratulations!

If you are talking about having trouble properly grounding yourself in the dream and further increasing your awareness, ~Dreamer~ does something that's pretty neat for that. When she first does her nose plug, she continues to do some extra deep breathing (2 or 3 extra breaths) to relax and then she tries to remember what her goals were so that she can be sure she doesn't just go along with some dream plot after realizing it's a dream.

Sorry for not answering your actual questions, but I hope this helps and good luck with your next lucid dreams!