I'm having the same problem. No advice, just sympathy. I can hardly even remember dreams for like a week. |
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Hi everyone, |
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I'm having the same problem. No advice, just sympathy. I can hardly even remember dreams for like a week. |
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Ah well, at least i'm not the only one I guess, doesn't anyone have any advice? Maybe this is a common problem, if so, somebody must have found a way to start lucid dreaming again? |
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It is my suspicion that some very Enthusiastic Lucid Dreamers all but eradicate the Higher Dream Mind, that is, they attempt to stamp out any influence upon dreaming other then their own Conscious Control. This is why we see so much Resistance to Lucid Dreaming in many Lucid Dreams -- False Awakenings being the most common. |
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For what it's worth, I'm having the same problem. I was having 2-3 LDs a week and now it's been 7 nights without one. It's frustrating because I'm doing everything that worked previously. I'll wake up after a dream and recognize the places where I SHOULD have known it was a dream yet did not. I'm beginning to think no matter how much you practice LDing it's still a crapshoot as to whether or not you will have one. Maybe (hopefully,) I'll be proven wrong. |
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Mine too. I started around the same time (late may) and have had about the same number, now it's been seven days of non-lucids. Vividness hasn't been that great either. I'm not busy or distracted from it, I've thought a lot about it since my last lucid: thinking more often in the day whether or not I'm dreaming and trying whatever induction techniques I can think of. I've done less with more success. Ugh. This is getting me cranky. |
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I think my dry spell has ended. Last night I had the longest LD I've ever had (only had 5 so far.) I'm guessing it lasted for 10-15 min. or so (doesn't sound like much but it seemed like forever.) In fact, I remember running out ideas for stuff to do. When I woke up I remembered there's a thread somewhere about things to do in a LD; I'm going to check that out today. |
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I wouldn't worry. You are probably not even having a dry spell. It is perfectly normal to LD a lot for a while and not LD for a bit after that. I don't think it has to do with a higher dream mind or anything. I don't know why it happens, but it happens to everyone. That being said, I don't think that is your problem right now. Having LDs every 2 or 3 days is great, and it isn't something you can expect to keep up for long periods of time as a beginner. 5 days without an LD isn't bad at all. I started in early march, but just a couple weeks ago started having common LDs (2 times a week), but I only had 1 last week, and haven't had one since last wednesday, but to me that doesn't mean I am having a dry spell at all, and now i am going back to RCing a lot, and expect to LD any day now, most likely tonight. I know it is hard when you are having them often, and then don't have them, but keep at it, as you probably will rebound, and have an LD in the next couple days, and even if you don't, and have a dry spell for a few weeks, that's okay too, as at the end of the dry spell you will come back even better at LDing. I was doing great at first, had a short dry spell, and came back better, so it's nothing to worry about. |
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I'm getting real close now. Yesterday I found myself in bed in a dream, but as soon as I lifted my head I woke up. Today was the same, except I floated away from my bed. I was a bit anxious in wondering what I would see as I passed through the ceiling, but woke up instead. Other dreams were vivid and pre-lucid. |
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It is weird that so many people at the same stage are not doing so well. I hope you are right, PenguinLord13, that rebound is near. I am starting to remember my dreams again the last couple nights. I think I was trying to hard, combining many methods and actually getting sort of exhausted from waking up too much. I'm going to relax and try to take it easy for week or so and see if things improve. Good luck to everyone; any major breakthroughs are inspiring to others so please share! |
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Well, I hope you are right too PenguinLord13, so far i've still not had a proper lucid dream... it's starting to really disappoint me, but hopefully it will happen soon. I've been trying really hard the past few days again, remembering to concentrate on lucid dreaming and stuff before i go to sleep, but still nothing yet. I've even worked out what I want to do when I become lucid, so hopefully when I do become lucid again it will last for a while. |
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Ok, I had the very same problem at pretty much the same point in my LD "career". |
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Heh heh, my dry spell just had a flash flood. |
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Wow this is really weird, I had an LD last night too. No lucid task completion (congrats, grayegg, that is awesome!) but I am very happy nonetheless. |
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Must be something in the dream-ether that is helping all of us break the terrible dryspells. So keep that in mind, those of you still in yours....the wind is coming your way...maybe you'll feel it tonight... |
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Well, this is strange, but I too had a lucid dream yesturday! Hooray! It wasn't a great lucid dream, I was worried about keeping it going throughout the dream but I was lucid. I got basically nothing from the lucid dream and didn't get to do anything i've been planning to do (I knew that I wanted to do it, but didn't get to do it in time). |
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Well, congrats to everyone. I have tried Ev's technique before (someone called it the reverse, something-or-other technique, I don't remember), and it worked for me for a night. I too had an LD last night after 2.5 weeks of nothing. I was actually thinking about LDing, but not as an obsession. Also, I think it helped that I was sleeping on the couch last night, as the bedroom in the basement was taken, and it is too damn hot to sleep in my actual bedroom upstairs, and that I woke up at about 4 AM, after 5 hours of sleep, and immediately thought, "time to LD." I then went to sleep thinking I just woke up at the perfect time to LD, and guess what, I had one. |
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I do think Ev may be on to something. I think my approach fits with his spring model. I normally don't care about lucidity, no RCs, no techniques. I prefer being aware in vivid dreams rather than be lucid. However, usually once a month, for the lucid task, I incubate a lucid dream to do the tasks. |
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