Really strange dreams.. But seem Normal to me whilst aseep. Some one help!!

[Dream Boat]

I have a really big problem.. Oh kay so.. iv'e not had lucid dreams in a while now. I just have ordinary dreams.. And there soo strange. Example: i was sitting on an island, and a big chunk of it Flew off and i grabbed onto it and it flew to another island.. then i cant remember the rest.. and then I was like floating in a volcano. And there was a waterfall of lava, and i kept falling off it, And then appearing back on the bit of floating rock, then falling off it again. The laver acctually Hurt me!!.. and ive had them about giant lorries Flying around my skwl? and rollercoasters falling off things and then fat people bouncing around.. All strange.. These are obviouse dream signs.. peopel say that there dreaming and then suddenly think that this isnt right, I must be dreaming.. Well im not in controll at all, its like when i wake up i think aobut my dream and remember myself in the dream and it all seemed normall to me, then after waking up its not its just completely and utterly strange.. wats going on? why cant i obtain lucidity.. and how can i obtain lucidity in just one night?

[skimpenguin]

every one strugles with this, i know i did and still do. id be like battling a dragon with a chicken as my sward and be thinking "this is completly normal". i found if anything at all out of the ordanary happens in your waiking life immediatly do an rc and also just get in a habet of doing them even when nothing wired is hapining and eventualy you will just subconchisly do it

[Dream Boat]

Oh.. thank you very much ...

[Ailos]

My dreaming style is similar to yours. I have the most strangest dreams, and yet I fail to realize that they aren't reality. Conversely, I have nightmares about some mundane situation. I will become utterly horrified at something I would otherwise not have been frightened of (like one I had concerning a store window display, which I somehow felt extremely threatened by... I think I somehow reasoned it was haunted by some spirit). I've also had dreams involving things like zombie-witch doctors randomly coming into the screened-in pool area of my old house whilst I'm swimming. You'd think I'd somehow notice that things like that aren't normal, but alas they make sense while I'm dreaming some how. I still haven't had a lucid yet, and I'm succumbing to the same problem you are. The only advice I can think of is to notice what makes waking reality real and to become consciously aware that said aspects make the current moment real and that anything different would mean you were dreaming. Once you get into that trained type of thought-pattern, you will bring it with you into dreaming, and hopefully become lucid. I just haven't had the resolve to keep training myself. Perhaps I will commit myself over christmas break though. Hope that helps!