Thread: I found out my way of becoming Lucid!

Sex.

Whenever I see the oppurtunity, I automatically become aware and my #1 goal is to have sex with that person. It usually ends up with me waking up before I can get any action, but I just have to be able to control myself to NOT have sex with the person, and going off and doing other things.

Anyone else like this?

Weird...

Have you ever had an LD which you didn't (No offence) waste?

How is your dream control?

I have that a lot too Slayer. I find that if someone (besides myself) is naked in the dream, it will typically make me lucid. So far I've resisted the urge (most of the time) to continue onto sex from there. Before I actually learned about dream control, I would simply go with the flow, but now I think I'm able to resist doing so because I'd much rather increase my dream control abilities. I plan on building my ability to LD and then come back to sex later since I know it always ends in failure at the moment.

Originally Posted by WakataDreamer

Weird...

Have you ever had an LD which you didn't (No offence) waste?

How is your dream control?

So far, I've spent all my lucids looking for my Dream Guide.

And I will not stop until I find my Dream Guide.

I think that works everyone.

It's also good to get past any hesitations and/or fears you might have towards SP.

Originally Posted by slayer

Sex.

Whenever I see the oppurtunity, I automatically become aware and my #1 goal is to have sex with that person. It usually ends up with me waking up before I can get any action, but I just have to be able to control myself to NOT have sex with the person, and going off and doing other things.

Anyone else like this?

Waking up before any action means you were at the end of the dream. Have you actually tried to not have sex or are you just saying that you will do that in the next LD?

IMJ

Originally Posted by imj

Waking up before any action means you were at the end of the dream. Have you actually tried to not have sex or are you just saying that you will do that in the next LD?

IMJ

No, I was saying that everytime I become lucid because of sex, my mind is set on having sex with that person.

I just have to control myself to not have sex when I become lucid like that.

do u mean u lose lucidity because ure about to have "action" or is it just ure time happens to run out because u might just be getting too exited, so try to stay calm

I'm probably becoming too excited and then wake up...

I just have to learn to control my excitement.

it could be a mental thing.
You expect yourself to wake when you start a sex act, so you do.

like a mental block.