 Originally Posted by paragon
You think you've got it bad? I constantly have dreams about lucid dreaming, and don't become lucid!  The other night my dream mask went off, I knew what it was, and still didn't become lucid! From that point on, I was wearing it in the dream, then I had a conversation with my brother about it and LDing, but still the penny didn't drop.
The only advice I can give is to do WBTB every night. Every time I've done that, the thought of dreaming seems to lodge itself in my mind so much more easily. Most if not all of my LDs and close calls have come after doing WBTB.
Oh, you think that's bad?!? Once I had a dream where I demonstrated the nose reality check to my friend. I showed him how I could breath, which meant I was dreaming. Oh, then I noticed I was wearing my pajamas and preceded to do a thirty foot standing long jump. Guess who never became lucid? 
I also hate when you have a discussion about lucid dreaming in a dream, and don't become lucid. Makes you feel stupid. As for Kiloisalb, that's a really funny dream. Trust me though, I've had much worse (though this year my dreams have been normal and boring so far). The best way to get better at knowing whether or not you are dreaming is just reality checking in real life when you see something weird, or suspect that you may be in a dream. Obviously, that doesn't always work (check above paragraph!), but it helps greatly. The real thing that will get you lucid is usually not the actual reality check, but the simple thought: "Am I dreaming?" A discussion about dreaming does not mean you are asking that question, which is why that discussion didn't turn you lucid. In my dream reality check, though I said that it meant I was dreaming, I didn't actually put any thought into it, and didn't become lucid. I find these are some good times to reality check:
~Something you just suddenly expect to happen, happens (ex. you for some reason expect a white car to come around a curve with not evidence to support that beyond a feeling, and a couple seconds later it happens).
~ Coincidences that are almost too unlikely to be true.
~ You just "feel" like something in the world is a little off (feeling light, colors seem off, and so on).
~ "You won the Spanish lottery!" (Check both if you are dreaming, and if your spam filter is installed).
My favorite reality check is the nose reality check; simply pinch your nose and try to breath. Obviously, awake, you can't. In a dream though, I've had a 99% success rate with this one. Don't rely on reality checks that depend on reading or time telling; in my experience neither brings up an enormous amount of trouble.
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